Recently my biggest fantasy turned into my worst nightmare. For the last few months I have been crushing on this trainer at my gym. He is fine as hell! So fine that he should be plastered all over tumblr. I’m 6 ft so he is about 6ft 3, a redbone with few tattoos, big chest, big arms, and football player’s booty. Just like we like him. Anyway we speak every now and then, mostly about fitness. He gives me some tips since I’m too cheap to hire a trainer. I never had any awkward interactions with him like you do with Work wolf but my spider senses insisted he plays for the team.
Finally after following each other on IG I discover he has a Girlfriend! A white one at that. Boo! So I tossed my feelings aside and just called it an L. Well I was in the gym one day…on Jackd…don’t judge me. And I saw a chest pic that looked mighty familiar and close. It was him! Long story short after confirming he was bi curious we made plans to kick at his crib. I know don’t judge me. He is fine! So I did not give a fuck about fucking that lady’s boyfriend. Well the joke was on me. Jamari he went from str8/bi-curious to a power bottom real quick! Jamari I’m a bottom but I occasionally I top. When we met up I didn’t expect booty to be on the menu but he had an ASS out of this world. So I fucked the shit out of him.
The problem is now that I fucked him, he keeps blowing me up for some more dick. He says he used to messing with white guys but he loves chocolate because of me. I’m not gone lie I’m tempted because the booty was good but he has turned me alll the way off. Sending me ass pictures and videos of him smacking his ass in the middle of the day. I blocked him on my iphone but he just started hitting me up on Jackd. Honestly he’s a nice guy but I’m not interested anymore.
How do I tell this to him in a nice way?
(…oh and the following will be:
kinda not for “the straights”)
“fuckin’ the shit out of…”
“breakin’ their back…”
“beatin’ that ________ up…”
“they tapped out…”
“fucked them completely stupid…”
those are the phrases used when turning someone out.
we also need to hear what the other animal had to say.
those of us on the bottom,
or with a pussy,
tend to have a different story.
when we get into the bed with anyone,
we always want to make sure we get great performance reviews.
nothing worse than someone saying we were:
“it was aight”
“just laid there”
“i had to do all the work”
if you were attracted enough for them to get in the drawz,
you always need to put in work when it comes down to the fuckin’.
once you do,
and you know how to emotionally gut someone as well,
you can have anyone under your spell.
the only problem is,
whether you did it emotionally or physically,
you can turn someone completely out and make them crazy.
you ever turned the tables on someone who thought they “had” you?
once you take whatever it is away suddenly,
it never ends well for you.
don’t think because you see some masculine attentionisto,
and they’re use to having others do what they want,
doesn’t mean YOU won’t turn them out with some off the wall sex.
nothing turns me on more than that.
the thought of having the “suraqahs”,
the “bk brandons”,
the “devin thomas”,
the “steven becks”,
the “kellon deyrcks”,
the “work wolfs”,
and the “so on and so forths” hooked on me.
i’m horny just thinking about it.
since you gave your crush the best dick he hasn’t gotten in a while,
and you are giving him emotional manipulation by ignoring him,
you have him completely under your spell.
the problem is he isn’t what you want or need.
you went into it giving 20%.
he seemed to have always been always attracted to you,
so he opened up and gave you 80%.
this can create a potential stalker
that’s the negative side of giving someone the good sex.
once you give it,
and you are over it,
you still have this other animal who wants more.
just like with emotionally fuckin’ someone,
the “cold shoulder” will break them down and open insecurities.
tell him upfront that you’re not interested.
you are only creating the “chase” for him.
with these types,
you have to “go soft” in your response.
don’t go off or be nasty.
let him know his positive qualities first,
and then break it off gently.
it may sound stupid,
but it works.
if you want to fuck again in the future,
you can hit him back up with the sweet talk.
you don’t want to burn bridges in case he is a little unstable.
communication is always the key
if people learned how to communicate better,
there wouldn’t be so much hurt feelings in these forests.
…am i right?
i hope this helped!
keep me updated with future developments!