dating is hard as it is for everyone,
especially gay males.
everyone thinks it’s easy to jump on an app and find love.
that might be true because i know a few that have,
but it’s the same process as looking for a job.
you gotta fill out a lot of applications and interviews before the one.
who is to say the job is what you expected once you are onboarded?
well…

Imagine meeting someone but they never told you they transitioned from female to male?

that was a recent post i saw on reddit that i wanted to share.
it was titled,
“stop hiding behind gender identity“…

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there was a time i would have rode joe budden until the last stop in jersey.
i still have fantasies of a voice like his waking me up at 3 in the morning.
i need him to stop smoking cigarettes tho.

joe budden continues to go places in his career.
he really finagled the bag after everyone counted him out.
even with all of his scandals and all his past shenanigans,
he ain’t going back to that old life.
i don’t even think rapping wolf,
isaiah rashad,
was gonna talk to anyone in the media.
as you know,
he was ( x outed ) last year.
he felt comfortable for joe to bag that interview right quick…

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uvalde, texas.
a town that,
according to wiki,
had 15k residents in 2010.
so it’s a small town within a very large texas.
now it’ll be known for yet another senseless mass shooting.
i was making lunch/dinner and broke down and cried.
i’m one of those people these days.
my empathy is on high but i’ve been trying to turn it down.
earlier,
i had a headache and decided to take a nap.
when i woke up,
i saw that it was an elementary school this time.
robb elementary school.

19 kids.
3 Adults.

these are kids who were about to be on summer vacation in a few days.
these were fuckin’ babies foxhole.
you know what makes me so sad about this too?…

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as christians,
you need to be careful with who you help.
some folks don’t deserve your kindness.
if ^christopher griggs asked for your help,
i’m sure many would try to help him.
ulterior motives on the low,
i’m sure.
rev. martia harrell tried to help and he returned the favor by killing her.
per newsweek…

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my teeth aren’t straight.
i was in a horrible accident with my mouth as a kid.
it has been one of my biggest insecurities next to the list of other ones.
this is why i don’t usually smile in my pictures tbh.
even with all my insecurities tho,
i still managed to bag some of the sexiest wolves.
there was a time when i was interested in getting veneers.
when i saw the process of how they put veneers on,
it was an automatic dub for me.

love and hiphop alum,
sukihana,
just lost one of her veneers eating crab legs…

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…and here i was asking myself if i’m getting the covid booster.
my only outings these days are getting groceries,
doing laundry,
the occasional walk,
and getting a haircut.
this is called the “in-between blessings” lockdown.
i can’t afford to be out in the forests right now but it might be a blessing.
i’ve heard nightmare stories about long covid.
it’s the long-term after-effects of catching the covids.
a tweeter by the name of savannah brooks just scared my ass…

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