ya know,
i was very surprised with drake,
but i’m not shocked.
ya’ll shouldn’t be shocked.
his “drake likes his coffee black” stans are hurt.
i would be too because he played them heavy.
his image was he loves black vixens,
but his baby mama is all the way white.
the thing is…

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as much as i love a nice downtown loft or apartment,
i am weary of big windows.
sometimes when you’re walking ( x the highline ) in new yawk,
you can see right inside folk’s cribs.
some like the voyeurism.
i like a curtain.
well a foxholer sent me a video of a couple having sex.
it was recorded from everyone outside their window tho…
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mixxy – always in the mix; super social

it’s no secret that most gays are mixxy and on the scene.
since it’s such a small community,
we tend to be known even if we attend a few events.
i was talking to one of my favorite foxholers in my ig dms today.
he was showing me all of the sexy mixxy gays i’ve seen on ig.
most of them have a ton of followers,
and they’re always all over the place,
but i had to wonder…

What’s the benefit of dating someone mixxy?

hmm…

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ya know,
often times i feel like very invisible.
like,
 no one tries to get at me.
it can feel like you are unwanted and lonely,
but i see i’m not the only one going through it.
ej johnson,
magic johnson’s son,
shared how dating as a gay male in his life is difficult.
this is what he had to say via “the daily mail”…
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there is a darker skinned vixen i know who bagged a fine light wolf at a past job.
i mean,
he was fine.
muscular and looked like he should have had over 10k followers on his ig.
the crazy part is he fucked and slandered his clone,
a light skin vixen with #bawdygoals,
but the darker skinned vixen had him hooked.
she wasn’t even all that attractive,
nor did she have a bawdy all like that.
she had a way with words and her swagg was insane.
this was a few years ago,
but i think they’re still together.
maybe,
it’s different with the straights?
in this life of gays,
i’ve seen all kinds of “mismatches”,
but i’ve also seen clones of one self in dating.
they both pretty much look the same.
i saw the following scroll down my twitter today.
it led to an interesting discussion…

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as of late,
i’ve been seeing some of the sexiest white wolves.
in the forests,
in my office,
and on my tv:

aside from my cousin hybrid,
who has dated and swore off white males,
i don’t really know anyone else who has dated one.
i was having a convo with one of the foxholers in ig dms today.
the topic of him dating a white hybrid came up.
i asked him if i could post his experience for the foxhole.
he was down for it and this is what he said…
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