shit happens.
life is not always meant to be a perfect road.
we look at others traveling along side us,
and although their journey’s appear to be easier in our front and rear view,
objects usually appear closer than they really are.
yesterday,
i was talking to a foxholer in my dms who has been going through.
he moved to a new forest to pursue his dreams and has hit a few detours.
because of this…

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most folks don’t ever talk about their “in between” phase.
you ever notice that?
the “in-between” is like the points on a “12 inch ruler.

you can think of those as the times in between the grind.
it’s from when you got into struggle and when you got out.
most folks don’t ever mention those moments.
it was a time when it either made them bitter or better.
we are so use to seeing the after tho.
the “buying gucci” and “being able to eat at stk”.
what about the times they couldn’t afford any of that?
when you was at they was at their wits end?
they don’t mention when…

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one of my best home vixens was in a car accident yesterday.
she was sitting in her parked car and someone slammed into her.
oh,
and get this…

How he gonna hit her,
get out his car,
and run away?

…and get even more this:

his REGISTERED car,
at that

the “you dun fucked up now” award goes to…
there was a lesson i wanted to share with the foxhole.
one that happened shortly before the accident…

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i don’t like to think i know everything.
Lord knows i’m a virgin at a lot of things,
but i like to learn new shit to help me improve.
even if i’m called out and gotta look foolish.
so a few weeks ago,
i went out with my home vixen to a nice happy hour spot.
i wanted some fries and i asked the waitress…

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so i think blameitonkway is absolutely amazing.
as you know,
he plays a character named “titi” that has a huge following.
his videos are funny,
they are always edited well,
and the wolves he features are usually fine af.
like,
he always has the best attentionistos in his videos.
so he is a major fan of tyler perry and asked his followers to do this:

well he asked and God came through with the goods.
this is the message he got from tyler…
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value.
if something isn’t worth much,
it’s often very replaceable.
jobs or relationships,
when we lose our value then we are out the door.
that is how i feel at this job right now.
they put me in a position behind someone who brought a lot in their role.
i don’t like the job enough to try to be that person,
but they are sneakily having me to do 100% of those duties.
more compensation not included.
one of my good friends shared a story with me that cheered me up.
i had to share it with the foxhole…

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