f0xmail: Are BGC and A4A The Only Gay Bars In Town?

Another bit of that good ol’ Foxmail!

QUESTION

Hello Jamari i am a big fan and wanted to know if i could get your
opinion on something . I am 18 and on my 18th birthday I created an
BGC and a A4A account. These accounts help me meet some new people as
well as indulge in a good bit of sexual activity. In April I deleted
my accounts for the reason that I feared I was having too many sexual
encounters. I am wondering now if that was a good decision. I often
here older people recalling stories of their early sexual days and
how active they were. also it seems that everyone engages in online
hook ups. I fear that this action will prevent me from experiencing
some great sexual experiences as well as limiting my chances of
meeting a good guy.

Are gay social networks a must when it comes to
gay living?

MY ANSWER

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UPDATE: She Loves Him, But He Loves A4A and Butt Cheeks More. Should I Tell?

So,
as usual,
team #foxhole rocked.
Good work team.
We helped a Fox out of another bind.
Your comments helped tremendously so: round of applause.
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Well he has an update!

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f0xmail: She Loves Him, But He Loves A4A and Butt Cheeks More. Should I Tell?

MAIL

I need your advise!!!

i haven’t been able to sleep in almost two days …about 3weeks ago i took two of my coworkers to dinner in tribeca we were right by the door just to see all the attention coming and also enjoy our drinks..this wolf walks in fine as hell with his fat friend so i told the waiter to go tell him that i would like to hook him up with one of my coworker, who is a female. so we called him over. he liked her it seemed and she liked him. they exchange numbers and have been together since he goes to apt and she is telling me she is feeling him so much that they might even move in together. i am very happy for them, the wolf (we will change his name to Triflin’) is fine and she is fine too…5days ago being the sexy fox i am go online to a4a looking around i hit this guy up with the screen name rideonthelow. i unlock my pics he unlocks his no face but nice body..we chat I asked him his name he says Triflin’“(the name of the wolf from the restaurant) he then tell me he is interested in me and would like to hit that..he sends me his number, Jamari swear on your blog, same wolf Triflin’ from the restaurant. OMG i don’t know what to do ..Should i tell her or not am scared and confused?????  help this Fox!!!! the guy is a bisexual wolf he doesn’t even remember me from that night I don’t want to do that to my friend/co worker.

it is sooo strange that this would happen to me i mean i have the a4a messages ..same age same description and same telephone number so..but i don’t want ppl in my job finding out shit about me. my friend thinks she got a good thing going. she called me on sunday and it was all about  him. I am afraid if i tell her she might tell people i work with about me..which i am not ready for emotionally ..the office i work @ is very business only….she can be loud at times ..but i have to tell her some how..am nervous ..i dont even want this nigga even dough i like bi dudes alot.

MY ADVICE

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f0x Mail: He To’ My Poor Virgin Cheeks Up! Owwwwww!

MAIL:

dear jamari fox. i love your site. i am 18 years old and new to this lifestyle. your site is so great and it has allowed me to get comfortable tremendously. the comment section helps me alot on days i hate myself for being gay. thank you. the other night i met this fine ass wolf online. i was scared but i invited him over to my house and we got it in. he fucked me really hard. i was a virgin but he did not know. now i have a hemorrhoid and it HURTS! i dont think i want to have sex again lol help! any advice!!!????

MY ANSWER…

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f0xmail: The Straight Wolf Who Recogzined His Gay Self

Lets do this!!

Question

hi jamari love your blog. i am sort of in a bad situation. i am 17 and in high school this guy i had a crush on i found out doesnt want to be around me because he thinks i am gay. he acted very standoffish and that kinda clued me in. it really hurt my feelings. i never tried to come onto him or do anything suspect. from the first time he met me, he acted weird. he would sigh or turn his eyes when i would come towards him. not to mention he hangs with a bunch of catty females who also talk about me. how do i get past this?  funny enough, people think he is gay also even though he is masculine and he hates gay people. i dont get it.

the picked on fox

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f0xmail: I’m Asain With A Fetish For Black Wolves. HELP!?


Another exciting f0xmail entry.
Here goes:

Hey Jamari,

This may sound odd, but I am an Asian male and I read your blog. I find myself attracted to black guys. Just wondering how an Asian guy like myself can step up his game and make himself more appealing to black guys for both sex and dating. I live in The Concrete Forest, been to some sex parties where black guys say I have a nice ass and fuck me, but that’s pretty much the extent of my experience. Are black guys open to Asians?

My answer…

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