FOX MAIL

Hey Jamari!

Hope all is well. I wrote you about a month ago asking how to score a wolf in the city. Well there was a prospect, army guy, but it completly took me by surprise and fell through the roof. This is a guy who I’ve went to H.S school with for three years. I NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS thought of him as gay, bi. Non of that. I thought he was as straight as you could get. Little did I know he was interested in me and hit me up telling me he liked me and respected me, and basically was givinng me hints without saying HE WANTED TO FUCK! So I invite him over my crib but his dad reads his messgaes and HE’S OUTTED. I didn’t out him he outted himself. But I wasn’t that interested in him anyways. He was too little for me! Lol with that being said, I am still on the prowl searching for the right guy.

So Jamari this is where YOU come in.I’ve know this other wolf for four years now. We went to H.S together as well. He’s always been on my gaydar, I’ve just always seen something feminine about him. We’ve always been cool, and when it’s just me and him, he is a good friend. But when we were our other friends (especially guys) he would tease me about my voice and my weight and things of that sort. But I know he didnt mean them even though sometimes his words bothered me. So with that being said, when people weren’t looking he would squeeze my butt. And do alot of sexual things to me. But he “plays gays” alot and I still thought he was straight, so it made me hesitant to approach him.

So long story short, he sells weed, and I told him last week I coming through to his crib and we going to smoke. I’m buying it for us to smoke, something I don’t normally do. We’ve been texting through out the week on which day were going to do it and finally decided on Wednesday. So my question(s) to you is:

-How do I get him to know, I’m down to fuck?
-Do you think he’s expecting me to give him some ass?
-And how do I seduce him (let him know I want him) without looking OBVIOUS or anxious, or looking like the stupid gay guy in the end?

He fucks a lot of girls so Idk if if he’s a straight wolf/dl/bi or whatever, but I want to officially find out on Wednesday. What should I do? What should I wear?

Let me know EVERYTHING JAMARI! Lol.

Thanks and Love you.

ANSWER…

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QUESTION

Remember that wolf (with the big ass) from my job you made a post about. Well, back when he invited to his 4th of July party that passed over month ago I didn’t end up going. I think I told you guys. Well since then nothing has popped off and my attraction towards him grows stronger every time we speak. At this point I’m a little heartbroken because his relationship status on Facebook indicated that’s he’s with some white chick (Ugh, Smh!). I feel as though I missed out by not cultivating a potential friendship that could have possibly lead to something more. Now he’s invited to go out with him (just us two!) for drinks next weekend because he’s free. Could this be my opportunity to make my move. Should the fact that he has a girlfriend now, should I back off from all romantic prospects involving us? I’d like some advice from you and the fellas’.

MY ANSWER…

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FOX MAIL

I love your site and have been a fan of yours now since about February of this year. I love the advice that you give and the responses that you readers make, its not the usual gay agenda type bullshit lol. Anyways I read your post “Don’t Start The Fire If You Can’t Take Your Hose And…” and it resonated with me. This article describes my life to the tee and I hate it. I am 20 about to turn 21 in August and I have no true success stories from my gay relationships and I have been in MANY since 17 and I have yet to have to actually have anal sex I have topped once. Though I believe I am a Hybrid sometimes I exhibit werewolf qualities and it really bothers me that the only people who I really like are my straight male friends that exhibit some sort of unusual interest in me. I mean like they put me on a pedestal over their girlfriend or mama type shit and I don’t pay them any attention. This “straight” guy once told me that he ‘hasn’t cried in a while and the only way he probably would is if me or his mama got shot’ WTF?? I literally just stared at him and didn’t respond

Yet this one guy who has gotten underneath my skin but there are so many red flags. I met him at FAMU while he was dating my female cousin (1st strike). Once he found out that I was gay we became extremely close for some reason and my cousin started to get suspicious and we ended up falling out over a petty argument. He continued to be cool with me while dating my cousin even going so far as to text me at 3 am just to ask me what I was doing. Long story short he and my cousin broke up and he and I fell out.(Strike Number 2)
Fast-forward a year and we reconciled our friendship after breaking up with my cousin he left FAMU, went back to his ex girlfriend and got her pregnant, and now has a gorgeous baby boy (Strike Number 3). Since he was working two jobs to take care of his son he decided that he wasn’t making enough so he enrolled in the army. I also left FAMU this May so there was a chance that we would never see each other again and he wanted to see me before he left and even though I didn’t understand why but I agreed to meet him at our mutual friends house when he got in to town.

We had established that he had somewhere to stay before he came up here. Yet he gets to Tallahassee and he ends up staying with me sleeping in the same… damn… bed with no shirt on and his muscles and tattoos showing. It took a lot of self-control for me to not lose my virginity to him that night. I tried to make him sleep in the couch the next night and he refused and play fought me ending up sleeping in my bed again every night until we left. After I moved back home he started to ignore my texts and I sent him a message asking him “what happened” and he read it instantly and didn’t respond, so I left it alone and pushed past the situation. He left for the Army 2 weeks ago and I cannot stop thinking about him and worrying about him if he’s alright and its scaring me because I NEVER felt this way about a nigga before no matter how rich or good looking I usually never paid a dude more than dust.

Plus I would never want to date him because even though me and the mutual friend aren’t cool anymore, I feel as though it would be fucked up since she was once a “friend”. What should I do in this situation?

MY ANSWER

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FOX MAIL

What’s the word, Jamari?

 I just wanted to stop by and say thanks for posting “The Foxy Rules of Getting a Sponsored Lifestyle.“

Actually, I took that post for more than just talking about how to get a “sponsor,” and saw a lot of ways where you can just improve on being a down-ass Fox.

More than that, you gave a lot of advice about knowing your own self worth.

I always respect a hustler, and Jamari, my blog/lifestyle Guru, you are just that.

I was wondering if you planned on doing any follow up posts
about how to conduct yourselves in certain environments?

What do I mean by that?

Well, I’m very new and very green to this lifestyle having just graduated from college and just now getting my feet wet.

I’m always wondering how you’re supposed to act/conduct yourselves in different environments.

For instance, I feel you’re saying be laid back, BUT, you’re also saying make sure you get noticed.

Just curious if you could elaborate!

One of your newest/biggest fans….

MY ANSWER…

One of my Foxes sent me this wonderful story he wanted to share.
It is about his past pain and triumph with a Wolf who did not deserve him.
I thought it would be something nice to read before bedtime.
Ya know, to start Monday off right.

I feel we have all been through something like this.
It could be with a Wolf, family, or friends
We have all had to learn “the hard way“.
Get ready to feel inspired…

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Another bit of that good ol’ Foxmail!

QUESTION

Hello Jamari i am a big fan and wanted to know if i could get your
opinion on something . I am 18 and on my 18th birthday I created an
BGC and a A4A account. These accounts help me meet some new people as
well as indulge in a good bit of sexual activity. In April I deleted
my accounts for the reason that I feared I was having too many sexual
encounters. I am wondering now if that was a good decision. I often
here older people recalling stories of their early sexual days and
how active they were. also it seems that everyone engages in online
hook ups. I fear that this action will prevent me from experiencing
some great sexual experiences as well as limiting my chances of
meeting a good guy.

Are gay social networks a must when it comes to
gay living?

MY ANSWER…

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