-Bad attitudes
-self-absorbed men
-loud, obnoxious men
-men that are ALWAYS hypersexual (there’s a time and a place for everything)
-Out men that look down on closeted men, especially when they are twice as whorish as any D.L. men…just out in the open.
-Ignorance
-liars
-superficial men
-gay/bi men that live up to every stereotype
-flat asses
-men with bad hygiene
-men who gossip
-bottoms that don’t even acknowledge their penises
Turn Ons:
-Aggressive, go-getter types
-Dudes that can teach me something
-Insightful men
-A dude with a nice ass that doesn’t flaunt it
-altruistic men
-goofy dudes
-men that cook
-affectionate dudes
-dudes with quiet confidence
-Men with both masc and fem qualities (he’s athletic and a pretty boy)
-empathetic guys
-sharp tongue
u been stealing answers JAY…but i cant knock my bisexual brothers tho…
What turns me off? Liars. Flakes. Passive-aggressive men. Fems. Turns me on? Comfidence. Men who are in shape. And intelligent informed men.
Things that turn me off:
– Fat men
– Submissive men
– DL men
– Non-committal men
– Men who are assholes
– Bad breath
– Liars
– Bisexual men
– Men who have children
– Thin men
– Bad attitudes
– Men on the foxier-side of things
– Whores
– Men who think they’re discreet when they got more cunt than a women’s locker room
– Men who don’t mean what they say
– Flakes
– Petty men
– Men who don’t take the initiative
– Men who will string you along and will not let you know where you stand
– Lazy men
– Attention whores
– Low self-esteem
– Men who take naked pictures and post them on social networking sites talkin’ ’bout “take me seriously”
– Workaholics
… I’ll think of more later…
intelligence (smarts) = power
a man in fitted suits
smooth, clear dark clean
ochocinco type body–lean but muscular
great teeth/smile
well read
self-awareness/awareness of the world we live in
manicured hands
well behaved
enjoys animals/kids
sense of humor/adventure
honest/loyal
financial smarts (even if he still living paycheck to paycheck)
tall 6′-6’3″
goals: 1year, 5 years, 10 year, etc
plays an instrument/speaks a second language
can switch between ghetto + proper seamlessly
natural romantic
big lips
no earrings
strategic fully-thought-through tattoos
fashionable but not trendy
wears no cologne
works outside the fashion and/or entertainment business, unless a lawyer, executive, etc
out to his momma (even if in to the rest of the world)
owns a passport
enjoys dominican food/culture
6… these are things that turn you OFF?
What turns you ON then….?
i focus on the turn-ons Jamari because as understanding and compromising as I am all it takes is one thing to turn me off. and it is usually something i never imagined would bother me.
Jay.. im lovin that list
Jay did you copy off my paper lol
-Bad attitudes
-self-absorbed men
-loud, obnoxious men
-men that are ALWAYS hypersexual (there’s a time and a place for everything)
-Out men that look down on closeted men, especially when they are twice as whorish as any D.L. men…just out in the open.
-Ignorance
-liars
-superficial men
-gay/bi men that live up to every stereotype
-flat asses
-men with bad hygiene
-men who gossip
-bottoms that don’t even acknowledge their penises
Turn Ons:
-Aggressive, go-getter types
-Dudes that can teach me something
-Insightful men
-A dude with a nice ass that doesn’t flaunt it
-altruistic men
-goofy dudes
-men that cook
-affectionate dudes
-dudes with quiet confidence
-Men with both masc and fem qualities (he’s athletic and a pretty boy)
-empathetic guys
-sharp tongue
u been stealing answers JAY…but i cant knock my bisexual brothers tho…
What turns me off? Liars. Flakes. Passive-aggressive men. Fems. Turns me on? Comfidence. Men who are in shape. And intelligent informed men.
Things that turn me off:
– Fat men
– Submissive men
– DL men
– Non-committal men
– Men who are assholes
– Bad breath
– Liars
– Bisexual men
– Men who have children
– Thin men
– Bad attitudes
– Men on the foxier-side of things
– Whores
– Men who think they’re discreet when they got more cunt than a women’s locker room
– Men who don’t mean what they say
– Flakes
– Petty men
– Men who don’t take the initiative
– Men who will string you along and will not let you know where you stand
– Lazy men
– Attention whores
– Low self-esteem
– Men who take naked pictures and post them on social networking sites talkin’ ’bout “take me seriously”
– Workaholics
… I’ll think of more later…
intelligence (smarts) = power
a man in fitted suits
smooth, clear dark clean
ochocinco type body–lean but muscular
great teeth/smile
well read
self-awareness/awareness of the world we live in
manicured hands
well behaved
enjoys animals/kids
sense of humor/adventure
honest/loyal
financial smarts (even if he still living paycheck to paycheck)
tall 6′-6’3″
goals: 1year, 5 years, 10 year, etc
plays an instrument/speaks a second language
can switch between ghetto + proper seamlessly
natural romantic
big lips
no earrings
strategic fully-thought-through tattoos
fashionable but not trendy
wears no cologne
works outside the fashion and/or entertainment business, unless a lawyer, executive, etc
out to his momma (even if in to the rest of the world)
owns a passport
enjoys dominican food/culture
6… these are things that turn you OFF?
What turns you ON then….?
i focus on the turn-ons Jamari because as understanding and compromising as I am all it takes is one thing to turn me off. and it is usually something i never imagined would bother me.
^^and I appreciate your honesty 6.
Based on which qualities… Tangible or Intangible?
^^Anything V!
What turns you OFF…