FOXMAIL

Hi Jamari

I’m 17 years old and oldest  of three children. I’ve got this big problem. And as much as I really wish this was about my own issues it’s not and I need  to figure out how  to go about so he go…

Ok so the last of July my mom’s boyfriend came and ask to see if he could borrow my phone so I let him he had it for like no longer than 30min. When I got my phone back I checked the app that he had used. He made a couple of phone calls and was on the internet. He also had a video app open and there was some BBW porn on, but I  didn’t pay any mind to it. However he came back and asked to borrow it again for  like another 10-15min. and when i received it back this time there was gay porn on the app (this is not the first time I saw this). When I found out that I went to go confront him about it and he claimed I was “making him
feel uncomfortable” so I left there room. Keep in mind that my mom is at church gettin’ her praise on and straight after that she was coming home to change her clothes so that she can go to the doctor because her throat was bothering her
So once she left out again this pineapple would not leave me alone. calling me out  of my room to play cards so that we could “talk,” or coming into my  room and basically hover over me. He even asked to see
my phone again where he showed me the website that he got it from (which he already had claimed that it just popped out of nowhere) even asking me not to tell because he has seen in my history that I watch gay porn too. After that he hasn’t been the same since. (acting super nice, like nothing  happened)

Now Jamari I don’t really  know the dynamic of he and my mother’s relationship, all I know is that he is the lying, manipulative, and super clingy ex boyfriend, that we had so many problems with, and that when they broke up we had to move out the house we were living in and move in  my grandma and all of  the pineapples that were staying there. I feel like maybe she’s being seedy and using him for money but then again she might be stupid and chose to try one more  time with him all I know is that I don’t really like him.

So my question  is Jamari:

how should I go about telling her that I’m gay and also that her boy is too?

p.s. : I think he has mom issues.

MY ANSWER…

i love when my cubs hit me up for advice.
thank you for reading and reaching out.

this one is a tricky one.
we have:

the maybe gayish boyfriend
the church praising mama
a phone with evidence
you

its no surprise that black vixens,
especially church going ones,
will worship the wolf they’re dating.
i have seen vixens slice their own mama’s throats over some so/so peen.
you already said that this wolf is “lying” and “manipulative”.
he already proved that,
trying to act “nice” because he isn’t smart enough to clear his browser history.
people.
PLEASE CLEAR YOUR MESSY BROWSER HISTORY!

if you want mutual destruction,
you can throw the grenade and blow up both your spots.
that move might end up blowing up in your face tho.
if your mama decides to run to him,
and leaves you lying there a singed mess,
you will definitely feel like she forgot she pushed you out 17 years ago.
my advice is that a smart fox,
wolf,
or hybrid learns to set traps here and there.
you let the other person expose themselves,
while keeping your hands clean.
once they do enough dumb shit,
you use their own shovel to bury them.
then add a little this:
“OMG mom!
when he used my phone sometime ago,
i went to look at something and gay porn was everywhere.
i really wanted to tell you,
but i was so scared because i didn’t know how you would react…”

i call that plan of attack: GASOLINE.
you pour it all over the flames as the fire is burning underneath the offender’s ass.so my reader,
proceed with caution.
don’t end up in any issues due to someone’s lies and manipulation.
sometimes the best offense and defense is none at all.
a little prayer and letting god handle your enemies works like a charm.
now if you want to get rid of him because you don’t like him,
remember a little something called:

KARMA

it knows all hearts and comes to collect sooner or later.
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….oh
since he is acting all nice,
and apparently has some change,
this is the perfect time to get some free shit.
couple dinners.
maybe even a cute outfit.
he should be feeling pretty generous since you do hold the shovel right now.
buying your silence can be used in “GASOLINE” as well.

hope this helped!

best,
jamari