You Should Start Calling Evelyn Lozada “Ginger” From Now On

I’ve grown to like Evelyn.
She can be a little brass and pick up things to throw when her foot starts to shake,
but she isn’t all that bad.
She is sexy, built a brand, her shoe game is serious….

…. and is marrying a Baller Wolf.
All the things we love in the Foxhole, right?
Got to give props where props are due.

Evelyn sat down with Vibe.com as guest editor to explain why she does the things she does…
…. and why the fuck you gonna like it.

It’s certain that Basketball Wives Evelyn Lozada was created for this lifestyle. While many reality stars fade into the shadows of D-list fame, this feisty Latina from New York’s gritty Bronx borough has expanded her TV limelight into a book deal (“Inner Circle: The Wives Association”), a spin-off show (“Ev & Chad”) and one million Twitter followers. The first-time author is weeks away from releasing her Courtney Parker-assisted novel, which you can officially cop on June 12.

In the meantime, bottle-wielding Ev is calm, spending her time vacaying in Cabo, loving on fiance Chad Ochocinco and planning her much-anticipated wedding (and wedding special). As our Guest Editor for the day, she talks us through the controversial BBW season finale, why she has such a respect for strippers and her thoughts on Rihanna‘s wild ways. —Niki McGloster

Without giving too much away, what is the juiciest part of the book?
There’s a mistress in the book and she’s physically assaulted. I think the readers would be very surprised as to who physically assaulted her. She was a mistress of one of the players of the book. Towards the end, you’ll be like, ‘Get the hell out of here,’ because you’re thinking it’s one person and it ends up being…well, you know.

How was the entire writing process for you? I know it stems from journals, but how did you go in and kind of write it to make it fiction?
I have an amazing co-writer, Courtney Parker, and we would have many conversations on the phone. It’s a little tough at times because you’re re-living and talking about things that happened 9, 10 years ago. Also in a weird way, it was a little therapeutic. You know, talking about it and getting excited about this book. She was very, very helpful, and she’s an amazing writer.

What is your reaction to the naysayers and haters who are wondering why you wrote a book?
I’ve learned, especially from Chad, that controversy is good. Nothing phases him and he’s like, ‘Why do you care?’ I’ve learned a lot of him: the more popular and more successful you become, the more haters and the more attorneys you need [laughs].

How do you develop a tough skin for that?
You can’t do this and be sensitive. For example, you know Suzie [Ketcham], she gets a lot of shit from the show. After she films the show, she doesn’t watch it or go on Twitter. She’s like, ‘I don’t know how you deal with it.’ I’ve accepted that this is a part of my life and apart of my world now. The more the show became popular, and I started dating Chad, and I got engaged to Chad, it’s been like chaos. I’m never going to hide and I’m always one of those people that say TV can be a gift and a curse, and at the same time it’s opened up a lot of doors for me that I never would have imagined. I can look at [the show] and say, Maybe I shouldn’t have handled it like that. Maybe I shouldn’t have thrown that bottle at Kenya, you know what I mean? If I’m blessed to be on TV for another five seasons, you won’t see Evelyn doing that. I’ve learned from that situation. Me and Tami do get a lot of heat because we are straight forward and in your face and controversial. It’s not always positive, but I know we can look back and say, ‘You know what, bitch, that wasn’t cool.’

What other lessons have you learned from the show through watching yourself?
Just to probably listen. Everyone always says it on the show, ‘Evelyn goes from 0-10.’ And that’s how I’ve always been since I was 13. Where I grew up, most people wouldn’t say, Okay, let’s have a conversation. That’s not the way things were dealt with where I grew up. You running your mouth? You talking shit? Things happen. There’s consequences for that. I’ve learned it’s not all about screaming and yelling and, ‘Oh, you’re a fucking bitch.’ Most of the time I don’t get my point across.

So Basketball Wives has been kind of like an anger management tool for you?
Yeah, it has. I was born and raised in the Bronx and went to public school in Manhattan. New York is a hustle and bustle type of place, you’re in cab getting cursed out and everyone is so high-strung. You’re always on defense mode. I love New York; I wouldn’t take anything back, but you become a little aggressive [Laughs].

How did you handle the reactions for your VIBE cover?
You know, you have those people that love you and think that everything you do is great then there are those who are like why did they put these girls on here they aren’t role models. I think that goes hand in hand with not really caring what people say. I would like to put a camera in your house for 2 months and see what I capture. People only know Evelyn from the show, they don’t know me fro outside the show, and that’s why I’m happy I was blessed with another opportunity because you get to see all of that. You get to see me with the family, Chad with the family, our kids, the issues we are having. It’s two totally different shows and two totally different things that the world will get to see when it comes to me. I wasn’t really to bothered, I kind of knew that it was going to happen, everybody has their opinion. But for me its been a good response, people love the cover and how the photos came out so that’s pretty cool.

In your last chat with Jen, a lot was said. Could you ever move forward into a space where you could at least be in the same room with her?
I think so. A lot was happening during that time. I’m one of those people, I said some things and I was just like, that was not cooI. I live by loyalty and I feel like at that point I broke the friend code. I should have never broken that code and I should have never stooped down to that level. Like, if she wants to do interviews and slick comments, it is what it is. I don’t hate her. People just get caught up in this industry; you do interviews and say certain things. I truly don’t wish her anything negative, we’ve gone through a lot together as friends from moving out, men drama, all types of stuff. It’s just tough having to relive it then talk about it. You never have that time for healing. But now that the show is done and things are calming down, I’m not angry anymore about it and I don’t hate her at all. I don’t really hate anybody, I was just upset how things were handled.

Do you miss her or the friendship?
I miss her. We were friends for 10 years. I was in her wedding, so you know yeah, and your thinking you guys are going to do this show together, your BFF, and then your kind of like what happened? And we are mutual friends with a lot of people, so everything else became weird energy. It was tough.

Now, Shaunie’s been taking a lot of heat too. What are your thoughts on that?
I’ve had conversations with Shaunie, and she is in a tough place because she wears all hats, she’s Executive Producer, a cast mate, friend to us…it’s just tough because you’re being pulled from every angle. I can honestly say that from season 1, Shaunie has been an advocate to find a balance. We filmed a charity event for kids with cancer and it was the most amazing charity event that I’ve ever went to. Even the camera men, grown men, were crying. But it didn’t make the cut and they chose to air the part with me calling someone a fucking bitch instead. She’s an Executive Producer, but she doesn’t know what tapes are being sent to VH1; she doesn’t know everything that is going on. But I can guarantee you that it will look different and not only because of all the controversy, but because she’s been working so hard to find a balance.

You just reached over a million Twitter followers, miss! Congrats! Were you blown away that you had that many?
It’s so weird. It’s not like I’m looking at my followers everyday, but my Twitter followers update me. Me and Chad joke like, ‘Yeah, when I’m at a million, I’m dropping you” and he jokes around on Twitter about it. Out of all the [reality TV] people I had the most followers; that’s pretty cool.

So, currently you’re filming your spin-off show and wedding special with Chad. Are you scared of the Kim Kardashian, 72-day marriage curse?
[Laughs] No, I’m not. Me and Chad have been together for two years. I feel like if anything is going to happen, it won’t be because of the show. We’ve been together two years, so I think we’ll be okay.

Now, Rihanna is one of your good friends, but from a role model standpoint, how do you view her influence to younger people?
We became cool on Twitter [laughs], and she’s cool! She lives her life and does what the fuck she wants and I love that about her. It’s tough because all of a sudden your supposed to be perfect and a role model to everyone and not live your life and I think she does what she needs to do, she’s young and having fun. Growing up I didn’t necessarily say oh my god look at Madonna I want to be just like her, I just loved her music. I feel like people put so much pressure on these celebrities and it’s like I think parents should be role models and if you don’t want your kids watching these things then don’t. Like my daughter is almost 19 and she will tell you that growing up she had parental control for the TV, because of HBO etc. In my eyes, Rihanna can do no wrong, I think she’s an amazing artist. She’s gorgeous, handles her business, and lives her life with no apologies.

Does she come to you about… let’s say, the drama that’s been happening with Meek Mill, Drake and Chris Brown?
We don’t discuss personal things like that. It’s just, if I happen to be in her city or she’s in mine, we’ll hang out.

You both do love the strip clubs, though!
Yeah…[smiles] my alter ego comes out when I’m at the strip club. If me and Chad go together, I totally forget about him [Laughs]. I love the strop club.

What is your alter ego’s name?
Her name is Ginger. Listen, much respect to all strippers. That is a fuckin’ talent! I don’t give a fuck what nobody says. To be able to go all the way up on that pole and your butt is dangling from the ceiling! [Laughs] We bond. I don’t judge none of those chicks; it is what it is. I love KOD, Onyx in Atlanta, G5 in Miami, but yeah… Chad was the first one to take me to KOD, and he looks at me like, ‘Are you ready to go?’ [Laughs]

Lastly, are you going to go by Evelyn Ochocinco or Evelyn Johnson?
I don’t know. I’m going to keep Evelyn Lozada for now because it’s a brand that I’m building. It’s my own little thing I got going on. We are still on the fence of that though, so we’ll see.

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10 thoughts on “You Should Start Calling Evelyn Lozada “Ginger” From Now On

  1. Chad is a spokesperson for Louboutin (according to what he said on The Monique Show if i remember correctly) hence all the Louboutin in his/her closet. Nothing wrong with that though

  2. I’ve never had a really problem with Evelyn or Tami because I understood their mentality. They’re very upfront with what they think and how they feel and they make no bones about that. Either you can deal with it or you can’t and if you can’t, then she isn’t someone you should have around you. Simple.

  3. I guess I am old school. She like many of these ‘NEW NEW’ hoes are ratchet and calling it REAL. I just can’t support ratchet behavior. Shaunie knows exactly what she is doing. She knows what is being put out there before we get to see it. Don’t let her fool you!

    1. Exactly! I totally agree with you. Evelyn, along with Tami, and any other women and men (regardless of how they express their gender) who act like them are HURTING internally and misplacing it else where. As the old saying goes, “Hurt people hurts people”. They are not mature, emotionally sound, or psychologically fit women! They are immature and definitely need counseling for whatever the cause is for their hurt and anger. It’s disgusting and sickening to watch women of COLOR behave the way that they do.

      The are NOT REAL, GENUINE, or AUTHENTIC people. They are FAKE! Real to them are “yes people” who support their extremely inappropriate behavior. And now the entire world is laughing at them which is exactly what they deserve. Redemption is possible and they need to seek it, like NOW! P.S. GET OFF TV and STAY OFF DAMN IT! 🙂

  4. I actually think this was a nice interview thanks for sharing Jamari. I think this gave us some real insight on the type of person she is and her background and how she is a real business woman she is taking this BBW platform and running to the bank with it. so i definitively give her kudos instead of doing like other people and judging her by 45minutes worth of footage shown every week

  5. She is abso-fvcking-lutely gorgeous. I just cannot take her foul mouth and ready-to-go-upside-your-head behavior. It’s a bit much for me.

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