i saw this while trying to wake up this morning and i had thoughts about it
no offense to the person behind this @ but at times,
i think some of us gays can be ignorant and love to flex.
we love to act like we are above it all…
online.
i feel like DL males let you know from the start that they DL.
it ain’t no plot twist just when the shit just starts getting good with them muhfuckas.
they let us know how they get down in those first few conversations but sometimes…
We feel like if we suck his dick better from the right than the left,
he gonna wanna pull up and hold hands in the mall.
i wanna re-frame this in another way…
The meaning behind being DL of anything means you are scared.
You are scared of others and yourself.
many of us do a lot of shit on the DL because we scared.
we on burners talkin’ shit online cause we scared to get dragged for our shit.
Your big ass age is scared of rats and let’s say you 67.
You gonna one day put your hand in a box of rats cause you old enough to not be scared no more?
fear don’t change cause of age or because a pineapple puts some dick in us.
next thing,
if you make anyone do anything before they are ready,
they gonna act like it’s good but they gonna secretly resent you.
all these mofos who outed someone cause he’s DL sure ain’t with them today.
lastly,
i feel like until many DL males get therapy to figure shit out,
they will continue to run on the same hamster wheel they been running on.
there is some deep rooted shit within us that don’t change cause we get older.
Some of our Dad’s don’t love us still and they well over the age limit.
fontin’ of dads,
mine is in his 70s and still holding onto shit from the 90s.
this is why i don’t fuck with his dumb ass now.
we just bonded because of the paper work.
other than that…
…at our big gay ages,
if we know a male is DL,
we already know that ain’t going nowhere until HE is ready.
which might be never or not with YOU or ME at least.
As much as gay males love to flex out here,
they secretly like DL pineapples because they are sexier and it’s a thrill.
It’s no different than fuckin’ a married male or your co-worker.
DL males are forbidden fruit that we know we shouldn’t pick.
All that goes out the window when we want to fuck.
And take it from history,
we LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVE to fuck.
…but i’m sleep tho.
lowkey: some gay males can be a little too “above it all” when we know we like the filth.
therapy has taught me to see the forest beyond the trees.
if he is sexy to me but DL and age appropriate,
i’m smashin’ him.
that DL pineapple is my secret until my manz comes.
sorry for that DL man.
Sooo many levels to this. Is he dating women at the same time and lying to them, is he just not out to his fam, is he just not into the gay ‘scene’? ‘DL’ becomes an umbrella term for a lot of realities. At my age, I’m not gonna be in a relationship w someone whose mom thinks I’m their roommate, or give anyone who can’t show a face pic the time day, but you can ID as whatever you want if we’re just hanging and messing around.
I’m so sick of this discussion from men on social media
These men be out and still single and suicidal at 40 why is DL the lowest thing you can be when half these people can’t be real wit their out loud and proud boyfriend/husband
We as a society are normalizing raw sex orgies popping prep and doxy and public sex but still DL is what catches all the strays
It’s giving y’all want DLs to come out so you can have more dating options
^ okay but you shaking the table on a friday!!!!!!!
everyone needs therapy!
“men be out and still single and suicidal at 40”
If DLs get caught, don’t they become suicidal too?
I’m not saying they don’t what I’m saying is there’s inherently no benefit to being “out”. All being “out” does is tell people you’re gay. That doesn’t help navigate the bullshit in this community. Bc half the people crying about DLs have no luck in the community with love or friendship either. So why be worried about who is and isn’t out?