you don’t know the power you have until someone is under your spell.
sometimes that power can turn the straightest of wolves out.
now not every wolf you meet will be gay.
some might be bi,
or “i only do this with you and no one else”.
the greatest power we all posses is making people feel comfortable.
allowing people to be themselves is something not many of us can do.
when you meet other animals,
and allow them to let down their guard,
that can be the most powerful weapon in your arsenal…
im not saying work wolf is gay.
i’m not going to label him with my assumptions.
i know that i have made him comfortable.
i think i turned him out and didn’t even touch him.
he makes some fucked up mistakes,
and sometimes i go off on him,
but it seems to make him get closer to me.
“how are you doing this jamari?”
well i’m not using mental trickery.
i didn’t do voodoo on him.
my witch doctor has been mia.
i just be me and let him see i’m not perfect.
sometimes i do/say things that make him mad.
just yesterday he told me:
“you say shit that pisses me off”
…like he is so perfect?
he does the dumbest shit and makes bad decisions.
i have no issue calling him out.
if i’m going to be his friend,
like my other friends,
i’m going to keep it real.
as mad as he gets,
he comes right back.
i’m learning its best to be “you” are with whoever you meet.
people like that.
they admire you for that.
they secretly crush on you.
you end up getting them comfortable and they start to reveal their secrets.
many “straight” animals have been turned out this way.
looks can get you in the door,
but they usually have little to do with it.
everyone is dying to be themselves with someone they can trust.