i had to been about 9.
around that age,
one of my best friends was a black cub i met at church.
we were like legit best friends.
even though i was different than his other friends,
he appreciated me for me.
i remember his crib was the spot everyone would go to.
all the parties happened at this particular crib.
i would sleep over there regularlyin the summer.
his cousinscame over and ended up sleeping over.
one of his cousins was cool and a damn pro at “street fighter“.
i noticed he would rub my head periodically.
it was weird,
but most straights are weird tho.
since there was no room in my best friend’s bedroom,
i had to sleep in the living room with best friend.
he was on the couch; i was on the floor.
the next morning,
i woke up and he was already gone.
i figured everyone had resumed playing “street fighter”.
it was like slow motion walking to that bedroom.
i’ll neverforget it what i heard…
you don’t know the power you have until someone is under your spell.
sometimes that power can turn the straightest of wolves out.
now not every wolf you meet will be gay.
some might be bi, curious,
or “i only do this with you and no one else”.
the greatest power we all posses is making people feel comfortable.
allowing people to be themselves is something not many of us can do. when you meet other animals, and allow them to let down their guard, that can be the most powerful weapon in your arsenal… Continue reading “The Power of Being Comfortable”
Everyone has a different experience in this lifestyle.
Some of us can walk out the door and start sucking a dick by the time you turn a corner.
Others meet Wolves once we get them comfortable.
A majority however are not meeting anyone. It is what it is, ya know?
I believe it is all in your season.
At that time, you are you most confident and your sex appeal is highest.
Sometimes, a nigga is just having an OFFmoment.
But, what happens when you meet a Wolf you think gets down and he is slowly going about the connection?
You know that wack “I’m really undressing you with my eyes” bullshit. How do you successfully get him out his fur? And, would he ever come out?
I had to wonder…
How do you rescue the Wolf who is trapped in his own closet,
but trying to get into yours?
Straight, but comfortable and confused, Wolves are the devil.
On one aspect, I am attracted to them because all the gay Wolves who are deep in this lifestyle are strange.
They do/have something that turn me off.
It could be the messiness or club hopping (aka more messiness) that I cannot handle.
But, the “Straight” Wolves I tend to attract/attracted to always have some quality that I like.
Be it they are always curious about me, or they are masculine with a hint of shyness.
I always seem to attract the great ones I could never really have. But I started to wonder…
Am I doomed to a life of attracting “kinda comfortable confused” Straight Wolves?!