on social media…
Every smile doesn’t mean someone is happy.
Every relationship doesn’t mean it’s healthy.
Every friendship doesn’t mean it’s real.
Every picture doesn’t tell the whole story.
we all create and curate what we want people to see,
but a majority of folks aren’t truly happy.
everyone has their own personal issues that aren’t shown in the blocks on social media.
everyone is mourning tyrique fisher aka @_tymula_ today.
he took his own life and this was his final ig post:
View this post on Instagram
there are a lot of IG stories and tweets of:
“We need to check in on people!”
“You don’t know what people are going through…”
…and no cap,
but i think it’s a bunch of bullshit.
this always happens on social media when someone takes their own life…
…and everyone mourns for a day,
posts some random condolences,
and goes back to their fuckery and fakery when the coast is clear.
Folks don’t check in on the people in their own lives,
distance themselves from those dealing with depression,
but suddenly are mourning a random stranger on the internet?
some gays will go back to mourning their fav sex workers onlyfans being kilt than be better.
you know some of the gays are self absobed and narcs lowkey.
i think everyone is shocked by his final post being as transparent as he was.
they aren’t gonna attend his funeral or send his family well wishes.
he is a stranger that we all met under unfortunate circumstances for the first time today.
i’m sure some people feel a sense of shock,
but sudden bursts of “let’s be better people“…
It’s like he called folks out and suddenly everyone is checking their morality.
when people lose their actual loved ones to suicide or death in general,
i think that’s when people actually feel something.
when i lost my best friend,
it made me even more empathetic and sympathetic to others around me.
so i’m here to font that like the amount of time of an IG story:
Folks will be over it by EOD.
i pray that tyrique was able to transition peacefully.
his time on earth was difficult and it sucks he couldn’t stick around a while longer.
he made and accepted his decision to take his life.
the foxhole and i are sending love and light to his loved ones.
lowkey: people don’t appreciate you until you’re dead…
“OMG HE/SHE WAS SO AMAZING!!!”
…but never showed that person love or checked in when they were alive.
“OMG I CAN’T BELIEVE HE/SHE MADE IT!
I GOTTA CONTACT THEM.”
…because they hope that person will put them on.
other than that,
you are in this grey area with most people.