4.3.21
foxhole,
this weekend has been legit hell for me.
imagine it being good friday and shit wasn’t good.
i had book club stuff to do,
edits to the podcast,
and i had to write some entries.
it seemed God had other plans for me and it wasn’t good…
how to respond when someone thinks you’re gay af for not being married or having kids
insecurity makes us create stories as explanations.
when we are insecure about something,
we try to throw others off the scent with an elaborate tale.
it never worked because it always comes back to bite you in both cheeks.
your old tales have a way of catching up with your new ones.
when i was insecure about certain things,
i’d explain myself in a way that i thought would make me look good.
in actuality,
it brought more guilt down on my head.
the entry i wrote yesterday about being married/having kids led a foxholer to ask me this:
“Jamari, it would be great to create a post on how to respond to these unwelcomed dating inquiries and hear how others would respond.”
and i have just the response for everyone that works for me…
if you aren’t married and have kids by the time you’re 35, you’re gay af
there comes a point in every male’s life where the questions start rising.
“Why aren’t you married?”
“Why don’t you have kids?”
Why are you single?”
if you’re insecure or not comfortable within your own skin,
this pretty much defines the choices of your life.
if you are someone who is straight,
it adds this pressure to go out and find someone quickly.
so you’ll hook up with some vixen you don’t even like to shut people up.
regardless if you’re treating her like shit,
or cheating on her like it’s going outta style,
it just “looks” good for everyone else.
if you’re gay but curious/dl,
that can really make the paranoia of being labeled “gay” scream at you.
so you know what happens…
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inkmonstarr wants to fly you out and smash (for a limited time only)
i’ve never heard of inkmonstarr.
apparently,
he is a rapping wolf of some kind.
in this climate,
he has onlyfans as well.
at this point,
how many folks don’t have one?
he has no issues showing his big pipe and ass.
apparently,
a foxholer sent in that he chipped two teeth while eating an apple and needs your help:
i guess he is making it up to his audience by…
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lamont johnson wants a lot of money to watch him jack off with baby oil
i don’t get onlyfans these days.
folks will legit ask you to pay 10-20 dollars to subscribe,
but then will ask for more money in messages for more content.
Why TF don’t they just put the content on the timeline,
but add bonus material in the messages?
i notice most of the straights on onlyfans do this.
the gays of onlyfans put the whole video out and more.
one of foxholers had an alleged conversation with lamont johnson,
aka @lmg_bangbang,
on onlyfans and well…
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its gonna smell like pure weed in the streets of NY this summer
from my past entries,
you know i’m not good with smoking weed.
last time i smoked,
i was higher than jupiter.
i was legit professor x out here,
putting together pieces of puzzles and the meaning of space and time.
i realized weed and i don’t mix well together.
i don’t think it ever has tbh.
i just did it because everyone else was doing it,
but it never had a real good high except maybe the first one after i lost Mum.
today,
they passed a law that had all my weed friend’s celebrating…
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