HE FOUND OUT I WAS INTO HIM AND HE OUTED ME (BURN!)

one of my biggest fear in the past was being outed.
either for my sexuality,
this website,
or being interested in males who seemed interested in me.
i became a recluse out of fear of people and their thoughts of me.
i was carrying around such a heavy load of shame within myself.
i was thinking about my fear of being turned on for liking “such and such”…

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ONLYFANS AIN’T NOTHING BUT A ONLINE STRIP CLUB

The following entry is Reading-MA
Adult content, Sexual Situations

you know what i was thinking about?
so i was baffled how people get caught up with attentionisto’s onlyfans.
some of us have paid for full mortgages and child support.
some of our fantasies will only speak to us on that platform.
realistically tho,
onlyfans is simply a mainstream strip club

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I SEE WHAT MO’NIQUE WAS TALKING ABOUT NOW

Sometimes…
You can’t understand what it’s like for someone else until you’ve had to put on their shoes.

it’s easy to judge until we have been in the same situation as another.
afterward,
some of us beez like:

“I see what Jamari was talking about now.”

“I see what Mo’Nique was talking about now.”

as tami roman in the bonnet chronicles would say:
“get into it.”
i didn’t understand mo’nique a few years ago when she was going off.
she had all the smoke for lee daniels,
oprah,
and tyler perry.
they are three of the most powerful black folks in the industry.
“she should have played the game” is one thing i use to say.
“she is talking too much” was another.
it wasn’t until i had a similar experience a year later…

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THERE ARE EVEN MORE LGBTQ COMING TO A CITY NEAR YOU

this time,
ten years ago,
i don’t think there was much lgbtq representation.
as the years went on,
we got to see more and more of it on tv and on social media.
we had lil nas x dominate the charts.
i’m even seeing a lot more tolerance with some of the straights.
these days,
being lgbtq is not as big of a deal as it use to be.
for some,
anyway.
the black community still has its issues to work on.

there has been a boost in people who identify as lgbtq in 2022.
per usa today

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WE WILL NEVER FIND OUT HOW BOB SAGET ALLEGEDLY DIED. PERIOD.

when star fox was killed,
one of my first thought was:

This is how his family would find out he dealt with males.

once they got his phone from his dumb ass roommates,
they ended up getting the meta unlock.
i think his father did since he was the one to get down there first.
he has kept star fox’s business from the rest.

bob saget and his death remain the talk of the social media forests.
his family has made sure nothing about his death will ever become public.
per “cnn“…

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INDIA.ARIE CAN’T MAKE UP HER MIND ON IF JOE ROGAN IS A RACIST

i thought india.arie would go sit down,
connect with her earth mother,
channel our ancestors,
and have a meeting of where she went wrong.
( x see here she went wrong )

nope.
she decides to backtrack again on her stance on joe rogan.
he is “consciously racist” per trevor noah on “the daily show“…

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