you want to know if someone(s) gives a fuck about you?
the ones you might be calling a “friend”.
the ones who you think want to be “more than friends”.
i know for some of you,
your social media lives mean everything to you.
this is a tried and true test to see where you stand.
ready for it?…
SIGN OFF YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
don’t post anything
don’t like/comment under pictures
don’t respond to dms
take a social media break.
give it a month.
maybe a week or two.
if no one reaches out if you’re still alive,
you pretty much know they might not fuck with you all like that.
if folks do reach out,
don’t be corny and say “oh i was testing you”.
just respond you taking a little break and you’ll be back.
staying off social media for a while can be good for your mental.
that nonsense about:
“PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN SHIT GOING ON”
i think that’s bullshit.
it’s also very self absorbed.
i go through shit,
but if someone i’m cool with suddenly stops keeping up their social media,
ima reach out to see if they aight.
if they don’t respond,
then ima find out what’s the deal.
see we’re in social media world now.
the days of “I wonder what happened to ________?” doesn’t really exist.
it’s not the 90s anymore.
our parents/relatives even have “something” social media.
you know they not tech saavy and have a basic cellphone.
if someone that consistently posts stops,
and it has been a minute since they last posted…
Wouldn’t that make your senses tingle just a little?
unless you are a socio/pyschopath…
when i don’t update the foxhole,
i get emails from foxholers asking if i’m okay.
so what’s the excuse from those you know?
folks you been around?
they can be up under your posts,
gas you up when you flexin,
but can’t send a message if you stop posting?
you should know where you stand.
lowkey: another one is:
open up the hearts of those who are true around me.”
if you start losing “friends”,