Something happened yesterday and it’s bothering me…
…and i wanted to get the fohxole’s opinion.
so i was playing ps4 with one of my straight wolves yesterday.
we get in a match and this random needed help with a challenge.
he sent my friend a message from his screen name.
we helped him and after we left,
the random wanted to join us to play.
my straight wolf friend is a nice one and said “sure“.
we played a few matches with this person but they couldn’t hear us.
we were in a party chat talking and shooting the shit.
and this was my bad,
to invite them into our party chat.
that was probably where i fucked up.
when he comes in,
i could tell he was gay.
i was happy it wasn’t a 13-year-old.
we’re not into the first game of him in the party chat and he gonna ask…
“WHO THE HOMO IN HERE?”
i don’t know if it’s me but i wouldn’t do that with strangers.
even if someone(s) is obviously gay,
i’m going in to feel out the energy first.
Folk’s sexuality or “they black like me” doesn’t mean they gonna be good people to bring in your life.
read that again.
so before i could open my mouth to fire off a smart-ass comment,
my friend gonna go:
“Well only one of us is.”
…and i felt put on the spot by that.
so i tell this random its rude af to ask that.
“wELL my FriEnds ALWaYS AsKiNg ME iF i’M thE HoMO!”
we ain’t your damn friends.
we don’t even know you.
as the games go on,
he talking about he got a wide array of dildos and shit.
he gonna tell me i don’t sound like i’m from up north.
“oh i knew you were gay cause you have a gay accent.”
so why did you ask since you “knew”?
the whole situation rubbed me the wrong way.
later on that afternoon,
i get a message on the ps4 app from the random talmbout:
“Let’s play tonight and my friend gonna join us too.”
i didn’t answer.
if this is what you’re like,
i can imagine what your friend is like.
Have you ever had your straight friends tell your story for you?
they soft out you before you could even say anything?
vixens will do that but get offended if you revealed a male they fucked.
i had to check my friend for telling my story for me.
i don’t know this person and i was feeling them out.
he is already had a sassy little tone and demeanor when he came in.
he was doing too much overstepping and it rubbed me the wrong way.
this is the problem i have with some gays.
some of them have no home training and come off with no filter,
which can be a turn-off for other gays who are more chill and laid back.
he came in asking who the homo was?
were we supposed to start voguing or fucking?
i’m honestly not interested in communicating with that random again.
Am I wrong for feeling some kind of way?
i’ll play some games with strays first before i let them join party chats.
lowkey: people have told my story for me in the past so its triggering?