so you were trying to bag the married “maybe not straight” male on IG but…

…he ended up blocking your Finsta on IG.

yikes.
a Foxholer slid into my DMs today with this spicy dilemma,
and it’s been simmering on my mind ever since.
first things first

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john gaines jr DMS are probably a war zone since he got a new apartment

in my social circle right now:

2 divorces.
3 breakups.

that’s the current state of my orbit,
and ever since we stepped into virgo season,
it’s been nothing but chaos in people’s relationships/marriages.
The Foxhole recently kept calling it:

There might be trouble brewing between Victoria Monet and John Gaines JR.

personally,
my foxy senses could sense something was up…

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you’re so good in bed, you can’t even keep a FWB? (eyebrow raise)

Let’s font about a statement like the above.

how many times has someone said/fonted this,
we get curious.
and it ends up being really mid?

i feel like when anyone makes a statement like this,
you gotta show TF up.
If not,
it’s giving a heavy:

after this drop that a Foxholer sent in…

i think the attentionisto who wrote that statement above might be a go….

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the boy is mine remix is brandy and monica featuring ariana grande?

when “the boy is mine” dropped in 98,
with brandy and monica belting out their soulful rivalry,
it was more than just a song.
it was a cultural moment.
the ultimate for young millennials.
i still remember Mum surprising me with the maxi single.

unforgettable.

I’ll also never forget her apartment flooding just as Brandy was hosting MTV for the weekend,
promoting her new album and “I Still Know What You Did Last Summer.”

chaotic….
but what a year.
brandy and monica’s sophmore albums still hold a special place in my heart.

ariana grande is trying to capture that magic in her “yes, and?” era,
but nothing’s landing quite right.

even her duet with mariah failed to make waves but only a cute splash.
she tried re-doing “the boy is mine”,
but not like the OG,
but adding brandy and monica to the remix…

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how to tell when someone isn’t a good person?

Something came to me and i want to share it with the Foxhole.

if you wanna know if a celebrity,
a potential love interest,
someone else’s new love interest,
or pookie down the block isn’t a good person…

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the tiktoker didn’t realize she would go viral off accusing td jakes of power bottoming

when i write entries,
the plan isn’t for them go viral.

i don’t press “publish” with the hopes of it going viral.
if the entry does go viral,
great,
but that isn’t why i have been doing this since ’09.

I do this for the joy of it.

this is my passion.
this is what i want to do and branch off into other avenues.
now some drops i can sense that Foxholer’s tails will wag tho.
for those of you who saw what happened 2 weeks ago,
ya’ll saw what happens when i drop scalding hot tea on here.

Sidebar: if you are still subbed to that Patreon,
PLEASE CANCEL.
everything will be posted in OUR SPACE going forward.

so this tiktok vixen,
jusnene,
is the one who dropped about td jakes being an alleged power bottom…

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