yesterday,
i was about to do something silly.

I was gonna send a mass text to everyone in my phone,
letting them know that if they voted for that man,
or they didn’t vote at all,
that we would not be speaking again.

in fantasy,
that felt good.

“Yeah,
Jamari,
you’re sticking it to em!”

in reality,
that does more damage and is actually very childish.
so after i sat with myself for a little bit,
i decided to…

Do nothing and be cordial.

i know,
boring but check this out.

Everyone always gets mad that Sansa Stark in Game of Thrones wasn’t like her sister,
Arya Stark.
She wasn’t a trained assassin with huge plot armor.

After she saw the Lannisters kill her father in front of her,
she didn’t go on this “Revenge ‘n’ Avenge” arc while in captivity.
I hate to font that if the tables were turned,
Arya would more than likely have been killed.
Sansa Stark realized she was in the hyena’s den and stayed cordial.
She actually upped the “defenseless victim” act to throw them off,
while learning the ropes from Cersei and Little Finger.

Arya had to learn how to be a physical fighter; Sansa had to learn to be a mental fighter.
They were two ends of the same coin.
In the end,
Sansa being underestimated worked out for her greatly.

i don’t have any evidence that anyone in my life voted (or not voted) for him.
so i’ll play nice but the moment i see regrets and complaints,
and i find out the person(s) did or didn’t vote correctly:

these types don’t get to have a pity party.
they wanted this and they get all that comes with it.
so when they start having buyers remorse,
and people love to complain loudly after they chose (or sat out) wrong,
that is when i’m going to drag them and ultimately cut ties.
realistically tho:

There are people who pretended to vote for her but actually voted for him or didn’t vote at all.
They are pretending to be upset because they are afraid of judgment.
It’s no different than people who trash their ex publicly but talk to them secretly.

so we will never know,
but this quote from game of thrones continues to apply:

lowkey: even when you find out someone(s) voted for him,
kindly find out their reasons to build your dragging portfolio.
once they start complaining,
you can use their reasoning against them.