i was having a pity party yesterday and someone gave me a present

It is the little things God provides for me.

yesterday,
i decided to host a pity party.
it was raining,
i was tired AF,
one of the Foxholers shared something with me that made me really sad,
and i was emotionally not in the best place.
sometimes,
it’s not a great day for a pity party.
we can’t always be together and posting spiritual captions on our IG.
sometimes,
shit just sucks.
i sent this text to one of my sisters from another:

yes,
i had on adele.
i was already hitting the gas to 100 for maximum depression.

i was happy that i wasn’t the only one throwing a pity party tbh.
so as i was celebrating my pity on my couch,
something told me to check my phone.
when i looked,
i saw that i had a tweet that said…

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STOP GOING TO CHURCH NOT LOOKING LIKE MEN!!!!!

I thought the scripture was “thou shall not judge”?

church folks are always going to be interesting to me.
dr. juanita bynum thinks our suits for church are “too tight”.
something about “knees being too close“…

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august alsina is giving us “chemistry” with his new cologne

so i know we discussed this in the past but…

Has it been confirmed that August Alsina is “one of the Foxhole”?

these recent ads for his new cologne,
joce“,
with zu aka @iamlazu_ are very…

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when it comes to menz we have dated/smashed, we all have a type

i was reading a thread on reddit about the kardashians.
i know.
i know.
it was a thread about all the wolves they have dated.
many of the people pointed out that the sisters have a type.
i started to understand what a “type” is.
so it led me to wonder

Do I have a type?

…and i definitely do.
when it came to all the males i’ve either attracted,
talked to,
or messed with

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the foxhole has told us everything about the attentionistos, gym bros, and muscle males

so you know we been in the foxhole for a minute.
every day,
i learn so much from you guys.
besides therapy,
my life has improved greatly because of my community.
i don’t have many male gay friends in real life but within the foxhole:

B!TCH,
I’M BLESSED.

i saw ^that tweet above and you know we like a gym wolf or 10.

i put this on my stories but i’m gonna post some facts i’ve learned in detail.
this may not apply to all attentionistos but it applies to many.
leggo…

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herschel walker danced to nelly’s dilemma and he might have kilt it

one of my favorite songs is “dilemma” from nelly and kelly rowland.
when i font you that…

I ???????? WORE ???????? THAT ???????? SONG ???????? OUT! ????????

“all i think about is you…”
good ol 20o2.
there are a slew of songs from that era that remind me of my first wolf.

i think thats the only song i listened to on that album.
one of the foxholers clearly wanted me to hate the song now.
they sent me a video of ex baller jackal,
herschel walker,
dancing to the song in a “they coulda kept this” special…

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