usually when chris brown is doing anything,
he is up to some shit or trying to be the victim about something.
it’s rarely ever about something productive.
as of late,
chris has been trending for his usual.

Fighting.
Drama.
Foolishness.

jill scott randomly decided to show love to him and it got her dragged…

i was shocked and saddened when i read that mandisa from american idol died today.
i remembered her rooting for her to win.
she had such a warm spirit and was kind even though simon joked about her weight.
even though we don’t know what her cause of death is,
they are saying that she suffered from depression and spoke about her suicidal thoughts.
this is her,
without all the glam and turned “off”:

you can see the sadness within her eyes.
i’m starting to believe that…

fonting of oversharing,
the following just flew down my twitter tl and had me baffled.
this is the type of shit the regulars are posting on social media nowadays.

An up close and personal look into their toxic ass relationships.

i think some vixens think they can put their paws on menz and they’ll be no reaction.
they are safe because they will be seen as vixens first and abusers last.
elisa jordana,
who use to work for howard stern and looks fuckin’ insane,
decided to record herself abusing some male in her car.
i think he was fed TF up that day…

i think some people get toooooooooooooo…
caught up in their emotions when dealing with other people’s drama on social media.
as you know or didn’t,
jt and glorilla are beefing over dumb shit on twitter.
someone who worked for victoria monet on her social media got way too invested...

as i learn to really observe people,
i learn that those who are a “pro-” something are really insecure.
they play a good cosplay of “the strong one” or “i’m above it all” but…

These people are the first to be easily broken when the flames get too hot.

intense amounts of criticism usually breaks them.
that being fonted:

Lizzo annoys me to the core nowadays.

she was so amazing when she first came out and then took a serious left turn.
from the antics during the panny to claims of alleged bullying from her dancers.
you’d think she would lay low,
let this all blow over,
and come out with a song for us to forget those moments.
this is what i assumed she was doing because i haven’t heard her name in a minute.
nope!
i rolled my eyes when i saw her latest social media post…

Amanda Seales is one of those black sheep.

so one of my best vixen friends sent me something about amanda seales.
my personal thoughts on amanda is:

She is usually right about certain things but other times,
I think she can be the common denominator in her woes too.
Unfortunately,
within the black community,
you either play the game or you get ostracized.
So many other black folks had to go to white spaces to get “accepted”.

if you remember,
or don’t,
she spoke her truth about not being invited or recognized at any major black events.

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my vix-bi sent me this to continue the conversation about amanda had…