one of my favorite past times is:

watching people who lead with BITCH first instead of KINDNESS miss out on their blessings.

…or when they fumbled you and come into your “thriving era”.
this is why your default should always be kind first BUT bitch when you are being disrespected.
sometimes,
you might just have to crash out on that mofo who tried you.
folks be walking around here being nasty to everyone and i often wonder:

how many random acts of kindness and blessings did they miss out on?

tamika scott,
one of the vixens in xscape,
allegedly experienced a bunch of bitches first when she went to eat with her daughter.
the restaurant is “the juicy crab” in ga.

sidebar: is the food good at “the juicy crab”?

so anyhoo…
according to her,
a few of the waitresses did not help them as they stood there waiting for a table.
one waitress did what she was being paid to do tho:

…and because she was so kind to tamika and her daughter,
she got a surprising blessing…

first off,
we gotta stop putting fine ass manz on pedastals.
they want love like everyone else.

i loooooooooooooooooooved the show,
“soul food“.
we are missing that kind of dynamic on black shows now tbh.
two things i remember about the show was the sex and:

the entire cast had chemistry with each other.

kenny aka rockmond dunbar was my obsession.
( x that one sex scene he had )
fonting of chemistry,
the vibes between damon aka boris kodjoe,
and terri aka nicole ari parker,
was so obvious especially after their first sex scene.
i heard they were messing around bts and that tracked for me.
why wouldn’t she?

she was on keke palmer’s podcast talking about how she bagged him…

it feels like fewer people are using their brains these day,
but and isn’t it always easier to trap prey that isn’t paying attention?

those people don’t like you because you have money and access.
hell,
you could just be a warm and inviting person.
those jackals are just tolerating you and tbh:

they know you are going to fall eventually.

this is what ive been thinking about shannon sharpe.
in my head…

what if humiliation wasn’t the end of the road but the ticket in?
before we pledge a frat or soror (for the vixens who read),
they drag us through public embarrassment and being hazed first.
once we endure the humiliation?
doors swing open and connections stack like poker chips.
all you gotta say is you are part of one of the many frats/sorors and boom:

kim kardashian might be the accidental godmother of this rule.
her sex tape “leaked“,
constant ridicule,
and being a punchline but yet,
the public shaming got her to billionaire status.
she is the blueprint to all the narc selfies,
nudes/stroke resume leakages,
and maybe even the “influencer” trend.
lately,
i’ve come to the conclusion…

i know that title is crazy but this is the Foxhole.
keep your boxers/pannies in a bunch at the door.

there is a saying that says,
“the bold move will empower your best self to shine.”
that is true but may not work when you want to suck someone’s dick.
some of us forget that not all of us react the same to hoeness with boldness.
for some males,
it takes no skill to get their dicks in you because they are for the forests…

…but even those for the forests have standards too.

there are many instances where you gotta play it cool with the dack you want.
this requires you to observe and understand your prey,
which many of don’t because we can be self absorbed.
so when this bold hoe advertised how desperately they wanted to suck duke dennis’s dick…

peep the scenario right quick.
you go on x twitter and see someone you find attractive got an OF.
from the previews on their x twitter,
you are liking everything you are seeing.

Your interest is piqued!

so wanting to subscribe,
you see on their OF that some of the videos say:

19:00
25:00
34:00

it says they got about 7 hundred thousand videos on their wall.
next thing you know,
they are offering a sale.
so you’re like,
“we about to be eating GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD“.

You were already iffy on spending 9.99 but you can do “2.99 for 2 more days”.

on one of your horniest of days,
you just want to see that person you saw on x twitter getting into some freaky shit.
you put in your information,
hit subscribe,
and Foxhole…