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I need help with a possible problem. My cousins new husband comes around the family one day each month. He doesn’t let on that he has noticed my fox ways and I am not interested. When everyone leaves the room he will get a hard on and flaunt it in my face. I try ignore it and talk louder to people so they will come back in the room and answer the questions.  Today the sexual energy was so high that as soon as the sisters left the room he was swoll like a fat tick. I peeped twice because he kept swinging his legs from side to side. His wife called him to the kitchen and he was reluctant to go and she came to get him. Am I the one over thinking or is he giving me subliminal hints. I’m usual not wrong about guys being bi- or gay playing straight. But I really don’t want to be caught up if he makes a move and then make a mess. I’m celibate and don’t want him to bump into me with all that meat.

Thanks for your help.

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Hi Jamari!

I am a straight black female reader of yours for many years and love your blog. I check it every day. I’m sending this email for advice in relation to a situation I’m in with a young man at my university. About a year ago, after being dumped by my ex, I started talk to the guy on Facebook. He’s actually a player on our football team and it’s one of the many things we bonded over. Within a matter of weeks, we fell for each other and began hooking up, with me always spending the night. He is a special kind of guy, loyal, caring, well-spoken. Between looks and personality, he’s my prince charming. I then, due to daddy issues and my recent breakup, became too clingy and needy and we eventually stopped speaking for a month. We then reconnected and I later found out he had started talking to another girl in the time we lost contact, and then stopped when we reestablished contact. We had a falling out a month later, which I admit was my fault, and lost contact again. About a month later we started talking again and both still had feelings for each other. As the months went on we went back and forth between speaking and not speaking. During the last time we didn’t speak during summer break, he started talking to another girl, which he told me about and made me aware that he would be talking to us both at the same time.  I understood and agreed to be just friends. When we got back to school, we had limited contact. He would speak when we saw each other on campus and respond to my good luck/good game texts. Then in September it all stopped. I didn’t hear from him or see him anymore and am sure I was blocked on his iPhone, until last night. We both attended a party on campus. When I said hi, he gave me a hug and asked how I was doing. Later on we danced, very intimately, together for a long period of time. He then invited me over his place before he left, I said yes and that I would let him know when I got home since my dorm is next door to his apartment complex. After he left, he texted me and asked again if I was coming over, and again I said yes.  When I got back to my room, I texted him and he never responded. He has not read my texts since and I believe I am once again blocked. My question is what do you thinks going on, why he keeps getting close and then pushing me away? Could it be because of the other girl and I’m too much of a temptation? He is very interested in her and has been chasing her since the summer, but the feelings don’t seem to be mutual on her end. I really need your help and advice on this situation. My feelings are so deep, I haven’t been able to move on with anyone else.

Thank you for all you do,

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Sup Jay…this shyt blew my mind so I had to share. I just started a new IT gig at a university and I am sitting in my office and a Jack’d message pops up on my phone and it’s from this dude and he says, “sup, i c ur close by…r u a student 2?” I peeped his pics (attached) and I damn near fell out my chair.  He tells me he’s 23 and a pre-med student. My first thought was, damn he can play doctor on me!!!!!!!  Soooooo WWYD? 

 

Have a safe and prosperous New Year!!!!

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NSFW,
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and “NOT FOR STRAIGHT EYES”…

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Hey Jamari Happy Christmas Eve. So I got a problem for some strange reason a lot of fem gay guys are attacking me and it’s so weird because I never said anything to them. They recently started attacking about something that wasn’t their business, but they took it upon themselves to make it their business. Now I am starting to understand why fems are look down in the gay community. How can I get these F bombs claws out of my back?

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Hey Jamari,

I was talking to a female friend of mine last night and she was telling me that she had to go shave before her man came over. I asked her if that’s what he liked and she said that she didn’t think he really cares but it made her feel sexier. It got me to thinking. Do most wolves like a smooth fox? Is some hair okay? I’m pretty hairy so I have used a body trimmer since I was in high school just because I think it’s cleaner. But I know some foxes who let it stay natural and wild and some who shave everything including their legs. I was just wondering what you and the rest of the fellas think.

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