Hey its Malcolm. I’ve been following your blog for some time now and i just say that I respect you so much and the way upon which you utilize your platform. We’ve journeyed through heartbreak, pain, joy and accomplishments with you. I’m ecstatic as to what 2017 will bring. Losing my grandmother and my DREAM job all within the same time was devastating but I’m moving on. I met a cute guy named Chris he’s 40 yrs old contractor and he’s a sweetheart but we’re just friends. Hes my chocolate oldhead that i talk about sometimes. We met online shortly after my Grandmom died, he comes by twice a week to check in with me. i was trying to hold out on sex but he’s 6’4 and he runs regularly so he has a nice lean, toned  physique and he’s passionate so he got the drawers quick i got to keep it 100 on that one lmao BUT it’s his personality that really makes me ‘see’ him in a sense, his personality made my clothes drop faster.. He’s been an encouraging spirit throughout this time. I’ve gotten back into writing and my poetry again, did i mention before that i sing. But thank you for your encouraging words. Good news as of  today i found thru my Recruiter out my new job starts in January with a company called MedRisk right outside of Philly. I’m excited and it’s a stable schedule unlike when i worked in Dialysis at the hospital where my days were 8:30– 9p or 5- 5 at times. I just had to share, going into 2017 is bittersweet without Grandmom but i feel she’s here and I have to keep pushing. I’m FINALLY learning to LOVE me in every aspect. Continue being great and remember KINGS SIT HIGH so don’t even worry about at the naysayers at your feet. i love you guys

Blessings FOXHOLE

Malcolm