one of my favorite past times is:

watching people who lead with BITCH first instead of KINDNESS miss out on their blessings.

…or when they fumbled you and come into your “thriving era”.
this is why your default should always be kind first BUT bitch when you are being disrespected.
sometimes,
you might just have to crash out on that mofo who tried you.
folks be walking around here being nasty to everyone and i often wonder:

how many random acts of kindness and blessings did they miss out on?

tamika scott,
one of the vixens in xscape,
allegedly experienced a bunch of bitches first when she went to eat with her daughter.
the restaurant is “the juicy crab” in ga.

sidebar: is the food good at “the juicy crab”?

so anyhoo…
according to her,
a few of the waitresses did not help them as they stood there waiting for a table.
one waitress did what she was being paid to do tho:

…and because she was so kind to tamika and her daughter,
she got a surprising blessing…

the other day,
my friend said to me that she doesn’t believe in God.
it threw me back a bit because i assumed she did.
in my eyes,
her life seems pretty dope.
it has it’s rocky moments but she isn’t suffering in the least.
last week,
she was blessed with over 3k that she didn’t even ask for.
she doesn’t go to church but i always assumed her faith in God was strong.

nope.
not even a little bit.

i saw ^that post pop up on “the neighborhood talk” and i gotta ask…

what i thought was a storm ended up not being one?
there was a point last year that i didn’t want to write anymore.
there was times i’d take 2 or 3 days from updating the foxhole.
i was tired,
stressed out,
depressed,
filled with anxiety,
and falling victim to the mixed signals of other males.
i wanna font about redirection today.
we might go kicking and screaming out of our comfort zones,
but it’s often times a blessing you don’t see yet.
let’s go back to janurary of this year…

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so i love pinterest.
it is one of my favorite next to twitter and ig.
pinterest has allowed me to find outfit inspo,
as well as created vision boards that allowed some things to come to pass.
these days,
i’m not on it as much,
but when i say the pinterest foxhole comes tf through!!!!
i was floored when i saw this…
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i love reading stuff about the powers that is The Universe.
i’m more spiritual over being religious these days.
don’t get me wrong,
i’ll still go to church,
but i don’t get obsessed about God like others do.
i feel like being religious doesn’t allow you to make mistakes.
i’m an imperfect fox and i fuck up a majority of the time.
i don’t want to run to the altar for everything i do.
the “new age” foxhole always keeps me update with the latest universal news.
well a foxholer sent me the following…

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so i think blameitonkway is absolutely amazing.
as you know,
he plays a character named “titi” that has a huge following.
his videos are funny,
they are always edited well,
and the wolves he features are usually fine af.
like,
he always has the best attentionistos in his videos.
so he is a major fan of tyler perry and asked his followers to do this:

well he asked and God came through with the goods.
this is the message he got from tyler…
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