hate sex is kinda hot.
so i saw this comment before i went to bed last night in the ( x tray matthew’s entry ).
even tho i answered it with a much needed smart ass response,
the contradiction behind it was almost cringe worthy.
i mean every comment they leave makes me learn something new about myself.
shit i didn’t even know existed.
here’s what was said.
(and i’ll hire the gracious new york for gif purposes )…
Actually not on board I get kicks and giggles from your unoriginal thoughts, to your delusions of granduer, public breakdowns, excessive cries for attention from men you dont know, and most of all your thirst dont loose your Metro card!!!!
it’s no surprise that i get a lot of comments on this site daily.
a majority of them are from extremely intelligent people.
even the reader above seems to be somewhat intelligent.
i thank GOD we can shoot the shit,
give opinions about celebs,
and gawk over men we would date or fuck.
sadly someone comes on here who feels i’m the anti christ of their life.
“put the letter D on his chest!
flog him in the town square!”
something i do makes them feel something.
a lack maybe?
jealousy?
envy?
i make them feel crazy,
but yet they still manage to subscribe and come back daily to check in.
i noticed something in the comment tho…
ol boy gets his joy in the fact that i get down sometimes.
doesn’t that say more about him than me?
well shit…
you lose your parents,
your best friend,
job,
having to deal with this tough job market,
and just trying to turn 1 dollar into 100…
yeah.
i’m not going to be mr. sparkly guy every day.
sure i whine,
complain,
and have my emo moments but i can do that shit.
the fact i’m not perfect and have real life issues is fuckin’ beautiful.
i’ve never done anything in my blogging career that has shown a negative light on my reputation.
sure i have an opinion like everyone else in the world that i wasn’t scared to share.
i also post men (and women) that i deem attractive no different than tumblr.
everything that i do is never to maliciously hurt anyone.
the receipts are all in the archives.
furthermore in my real life i don’t have any arrest records,
i’m not scamming anyone out of money,
nor do i escort or hoe.
the biggest secret in my life is this website.
oh and the fact i watch cartoons still and will cry in a disney movie.
#judgemenot.
so in the end i believe in karma.
i believe all that you do comes back to you ten fold.
many have eaten their words fuckin’ around with me.
i can say i done good for these last 4 years.
if i haven’t then god will pay me what i owe,
but again: the receipts are in the archives.
but again thank you for continuing to visit and check up on me.
i like to give my biggest critics a front row seat into my life.
you now what they say:
“Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”
they serve you better that way.
Hey J, you know I barely comment much myself, but I really love this blog, and love checking on it daily (sometimes multiple times a day! lol). I can’t stand that people love to take joy in your misery, but you know you have a loyal, intelligent group of readers that love hearing your opinion on everything from men to video games to music. Keep doing your thing!
^thanks @theroof @t and everyone.
you would think I was on some mto / perez hilton shit.
not everyone will agree with my opinion,
but to say you take joy in my pain and when I’m at my lowest???
that’s a new level of disrespect and I had to address.
After reading the bullying story and then coming to that comment, I admit, I felt some type of way. Its like you start a platform to express yourself and of course its going to come with criticism and different opinions, but some people are so miserable that they want to inflict pain and hurt on others with their words. This blog is like family to me, and when one of the family members get attacked you want to put your cyber foot up their A$$, and this cunt is obviously a cyber bully, and truth be told I smelled a old posters ass all over that comment, but I wont start none with that. I guess I should just be used to all these people who can be big and bad on the internet where no one can see them. Incognito gets comeback of the year, I LMAO after he corrected the corrector. J keep doing your thing, for you touch way more people than the ones who are miserable haters.
P.S. Haters if you hate this spot so much start your own spot for like minded idiots such as yourself.
When I read the comment it brought to mind another póster, a ” straight” guy,who used to post here.Coincidence ? I’ve always suspected that poster was envious of Jamari.Jamari being honest and vulnerable and self accepting ,is the MAN that poster wish he could be.JMO
So weird that you act like any other human being on Planet Earth.I always thought you were the Fox God who granted us lesser beings with words of wisdom.
And…
I still watch cartoons too.
Me too. I’m watchin Sponge Bob right now lol.
Haha, Jamari… Can I call you Jamari??? I am usually just a lurker, maybe commented just once in a 1 year period, but I love what you do. Let them SLORES (slow whore) keep talking about you because they are giving someone else a break. I love this comeback post!! KEEP LIGHTING FIRE TO DEY HATIN ASS!!
^lololol!!
you can call me J or Jamari!
doesn’t matter!
Yea, that comment was so wrong. Hov has problems of his own. Either that or he likes you.