Thought I would share it and my response….
Anonymous: You ever thought about showing your face to your readers on your blog(s)? Big reason is there is a myth going around that the only really fine gay men are the ones not out. We see out men everywhere and rarely do we get one that is both fine and intelligent in one complete package on a scale that you are on. It would probably give a lot of inspiration to those that read to know that it is possible to be a handsome man and also be secure in your sexuality. Sure you can find a lot of fine white out gay men……but there arent as many black ones. Esp not on the caliber you are or the blogosphere. You may really hold a lot of power identifying yourself to them.
-Just a thought.
I appreciate the question.
Now Wolves, Foxes, and Vixens let me ask you a question:
Is it wrong that I do not want to be the “savior” of the gay world?
I love my readers, love who pays attention, and I love who lurks but I’m not looking to change the world.
I am here to write and inspire those who can relate.
There are people in the world who come to my site to just agree with what I say, look at some gorgeous men, watch some porn, intrigued by me, or just bug out.
I’m like an entertainer of sorts.
Not everyone wants to take on that responsibility.
Not everyone wants to be dragged out the closet to wear “the cape”.
Not everyone wants to be “the voice”.
That isn’t my role in life.
My role is to create my own happiness in the journey I choose.
And if people choose me, Jamari Fox to live vicariously through: I take on that responsibility.
I am satisfied being who I am in the blogsphere.
I definitely made a dent with what I bring to the table.
When I make it to higher heights with this site, I will still want my privacy.
If I choose to meet anyone off this site, that would be my decision to reveal myself or not.
Is that wrong?
I notice when you are honest about the role you assume in this lifestyle, people take offense.
But then my question to them is:
You are huffin’ and puffin’… but why aren’t YOU doing it?
So let me know…