Category: SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU

the forests are full of predators waiting to eat you alive.
you’re a fox and one of the smallest in the animal kingdom.
ironically,
you’re also one of the smartest.
a fox is usually a lone hunter,
but also very careful to avoid danger.
in the real world,
we need to encounter danger in order to survive successfully.
i love my enemies.
well…

SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU

why must we do things we don’t like doing?
i had to ask myself that today on the way home.
why do we do that shit?
it’s a huge waste of time.
our parents were wrong in teaching us that.

“You gotta do things you don’t like in order to make it.”

do we,
really?
so:

we fuck folks we don’t like…
but we need to get a nut.

we live in forests we don’t like…
but it keeps a roof over our heads.

we befriend others we don’t like…
just so we can talk about all the dumb shit they do.

we stick at jobs we don’t like…
because it’s all about the money.

well i’m at my last fuck to give with that shit.
i left that job today…

A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU

this is really classy of jeramie hollins.
i think it’s really respectful and shows a good character.
my rule is this:

When someone takes the time to feature you,
even if they have 50 or 500k followers,
you should ALWAYS show them love

i mean,
that is just common knowledge.
only fakes and users do the opposite.
i think the problem is people don’t know how to network nowadays.
they think if it isn’t a well known platform,
there is nothing in it for them.
that is far from the truth.
i call it a “slow burn”.
let me tell the foxhole a story real quick.
so everyone meet…

HE MAKES MY TAIL SIT UP SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU

lanes.
we all have one.
maybe two or three,
but it’s usually one you’re really good at.
we always want to jump from lane to lane for quick success,
but never actually develop the first lane completely until we move.
maybe you do it on your own,
or the passengers around that hype you up,
but it’s easy to swerve and get into a head on collision.
i know my lane.
now…

LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU

one thing we never talk about in the foxhole is rape.
yes.
it don’t matter if you are a hoe or prudish.
it can happen in your spot or at a hotel.
gay males can get raped.
like our mental health,
it’s not something we like to talk about.
in a “victim blaming” society,
you are forced to suffer in silence.
not in the foxhole.
i won’t have it or stand for it.
so a vix-bi directed me to a story about zeke thomas.
he is the cub to nba legend,
isiah thomas.
well he spoke out about the time he got raped off grindr.
very tough story,
but the foxhole needs to read it via new york magazine

LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE SOMETHING IYANLA VANZANT WOULD TELL YOU