i was posed with a thought after an intense therapy session today,
and even seeing clips of this mo’nique interview on club shay shay…
When do we stop?
When do we realize they broke us and don’t care?
When do we cease hoping they see our worth?
When do we understand that he don’t want us?
When do we move forward from that broken friendship?
When do we acknowledge that our parent(s) failed us?
When do we take accountability in our parts that we played too?
i had a chat with a friend today that said something interesting:
“The people who hurt Mo’nique don’t care. They will never apologize to her. She is talking about something and they have continued to live their lives. They are building legacies and Mo’Nique is still telling this story. It’s coming off bitter and shows she has nothing really going on. At some point, she gotta move on with her life. She needs to take accountability for her bullshit too.”
when we look at the hurt we are holding onto,
from jackals or hyenas who have moved forward,
and we are still telling the same story in hopes we are heard by them…
We need to realize many of those jackals and hyenas don’t care.
they were sent by the devil to break us,
they succeeded in their mission,
and they moved forward to another victim.
we have to:
Understand we have been hurt
Accept that we were hurt by them
Heal what has been hurt
Become the muthafuckin’ shit so they saw their demonic leader didn’t succeed
it’s like mariah after tommy motolla tried to break her.
we gotta get emancipated for our comeback season.
the trauma can be used for our benefit.
so i guess my next question is we are cheering on monique again.
she is telling her story of how she has been hurt again.
she is speaking for us who have no voice in expressing our hurt again but…
When will someone tell her to stop?
…or will this help her get steps closer to acknowledgement for her closure?
peep the interview: