i’ll never forget an incident as an 8-year-old in  barbados.
one of my father’s friends commented i was “soft“.
it really hurt my feelings and of course,
he blamed it on being raised by my grandmother and mother.
when i told him how it made me feel when we reconnected,
and how he never defended me at that moment,
he legit brushed it off but told me how hurt he was that i was gay.
the same father that said he didn’t want to call my phone because:

“I didn’t want the man you might be with to beat you up because another man was calling you.”

If only we could have fathers like Judge Mathis

he has a new show on e! called mathis family matters.
when you watch stuff like this with his son,
greg mathis jr…

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i know that i’m going to date a wolf with kids.
as we grow up,
males have kids and also realize they are attracted to other males too.
personally,
i don’t want to meet their kids until it is serious between me and dad.
i’m not trying to play “new daddy” but that’s a lot during the first stages.
i know vixens who don’t introduce any partners to their kids.
they only meet the kids once the relationship gets serious.
i hate when vixens have randoms all around their children.
i was reading up on this whole former basketball wives star,
royce reed,
and the debacle involving her kid last night.
her 14-year-old son was allegedly molesting other kids.
she turned herself in for felony child neglect…
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life can be a rollercoaster.
it has so many dips and twists.
we can go from celebrating to someone’s pipe leakage to mourning in the next font.
nick cannon,
who i just fonted about his pipe leakage,
has lost his youngest son,
zen,
to brain cancer on sunday.
he spoke about it on his show,
“the nick cannon show“…

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this is one of my worst fears tbh.

Finally meeting some (baller) wolf I’m really into,
he is into me as well,
things are great until he is upset and punches me into the oven.

from nerds to wolves who play by the rules in public,
you just never know who is abusive af out here.
wtf is going on with all these toxic and abusive relationship stories these days?
i’m starting to be grateful i’m single.
ex baller jackal of the nfl,
zac stacy,
just got exposed for abusing his baby mama in front of his 5-month-old son and well…

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kirk franklin has been the talk of the forests since “bitch ass pineapple-gate” with his son.
it would be no surprise that social media has been sharing opinions about his alleged canceled.
on clubhouse,
an app used to express ourselves vocally on virtual panels has been lit up with rooms about kirk.

the pretty vixen invited me to attend a discussion yesterday.
the room was called “kirk franklin and black parenting“.

as i was listening,
amongst some great points,
one thing struck a chord with me…

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