things tend to come full circle.
star fox and i were obsessed with “hiding in hip hop” when it dropped.
it was written by terrance dean and came out in 2008.
the book was about a gay male who told his tales about black dl hollywood.
he dropped hints about who was dl but never revealed names.
it’s very similar to how i operate on the foxhole tbh.
a short time after i read it,
i was connected to terrance and we spoke on the phone.
i told him that i was fascinated by his life and his journey.
i was also super ready to jump head first into black dl hollywood.
legit,
head first.
it made me want to write.
it inspired me to blog about a life i didn’t think existed.
i’ll be transparent but the foxhole was inspired tremendously by his book.
on star fox’s birthday yesterday,
a foxholer sent me some devastating news…

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they say don’t let the sun go down on your wrath.
i use to hear that all the time from my grandmother.
i’ll add another to the “things not to do“:

Don’t drive drunk,
which is a no-brainer,
but also don’t drive while arngry or arguing.

if you didn’t know,
our adrenaline is pumping when we are angry.
the following has disturbed me to no end.
this video of this car legit plowing through a red light,
killing 6 victims,
which included someone pregnant and their baby.

like,
do you see how fast she was going?????
did she think she was in a rocket?
what in the entire fuck!
it was the details from the scene that disturbed me the most…

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um…
i’m shocked af.
i loved traci braxton on “braxton family values“.
she is also responsible for this iconic gif:

 she lost her fight to cancer today…

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The marvelous and curated world of social media.

a place where we can fool and even convince.
we always font about this.

We never know what people are going through.

people are shocked that a beauty queen would take their own life.
cheslie kryst,
who was the 2019 miss usa and also a lawyer,
did just that today…

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ya’ll…
every time that i put on this tank album…
i was doing some journaling,
listening to this tank album after having a really tiring day,
and i get this horrible news about regina king’s son via “b scott”…

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i’m laying here,
listening to a tank album,
and i saw my phone screen light up in the dark.
when i turn to look at it,
i see:

Ex-Vogue Cheif Andre Leon Talley Dead at 73

at first,
i thought i saw “en vogue” and jumped outta bed.
uuummmmm via “tmz“…

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