“Listen…
I mess with dudes,
but I’m not out there with it.
I’m not gonna hold you but I’m really attracted to you.
If you are cool with me not being out there,
we can mess around.
I’m not looking for anything serious right now.
If that isn’t what you’re looking for,
I understand and that’s cool too.”

….or something like that.
it’s perfect tho.
personally,
that is how you do shit if you’re on the low.
it saves hurt feelings and potential outing because you put it all on the table.
i think miscommunication is what causes hurt feelings tbh.
you want a relationship; they wants to fuck.
why are we not on the same page?
now don’t get me wrong….

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males will tell you anything when they’re horny.
we should all know since most of the foxhole is male.
i keep telling vixen friends to stop acting confused when it comes to dudes.
when a male has nut he needs to release,
he will suddenly become very nice and tell her all she wants to hear.

Texts become more frequent
Likes and comments become over-abundant
Plans start being made

he wasn’t doing all this before,
but suddenly,
he has become prince charming?
gtfoh.
once he has finished fucking her like he “loves” her…

he is back to being confusing and a headache.
dl males operate the same way.
one of my foxholers sent me this message today:

“Gays are so stupid, he only telling you that to still fuck you and be with his girl and fuck her too“

with the following video attached…

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i find that “holier than thou” dl pineapples have the best gay drama.
i mean their drama is sooooooo juicy.
theft,
escorts,
and cheating,
but will be at church every sunday like nothing  is happening.
now some of them pay you good just to smash,
but unfortuantely,
someone(s) usually gets killed.
so ^that hyena,
roy mcclendon-thompson,
is the main hyena in this story.
he allegedly killed his best friend and escort boy toy.
this story kinda confusing,
so i’ll break down all the characters involved…

Continue reading “STAY AWAY FROM THE CHURCH DL CROWD (THEY’LL KILL YOU)” →

cheating.
what’s done in the dark will surely come into the light.
no matter how good you think you are,
you leave a trail of bread crumbs to follow.
when you’re a dl male cheating on his wife,
you’ve pretty much open up the court to not rule in your favor.
last week,
i was sick when the following story broke.
it was about an alleged dl pastor who was caught cheating…

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this is for the dl and discreet ones in the foxhole,
lurking,
or a friend of someone else.
it’s going to be quick…

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he might just be gay.
i knew one who had an issue with every vixen he met.
it’d be all good and then a month later,
like clockwork,
there would be “a problem”.
sometimes,
a very small one that could be worked out.
he’d pick a random fight and then ghost the poor vixen.
i knew another who sexually kept going through vixens like underwear.
at first,
i thought it was the “we don’t love these hoes” narrative.
i can attest that about 98% weren’t hoes.
he’d go through the whole process like he was trying to date.
his excuse:
males are “supposed” to fuck a ton of women before settling down.
“sewing their wild oats” as they often say,
but if he’s close to 50 and still doing that…
Continue reading “the issue isn’t with you, miss lady (the issue is he’s gay and doesn’t want vagina)” →