ricky martin use to be livin la vida loca in homophobia!
see what i did there?
he was once a bully to his own kind.
yup.
sounds like a foreshadow, doesn’t it?
well this is what he told gq australia about his trife life in the closet…

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hip hop journalist,
dream hampton ( x bio ),
decided to weigh in on some same sex issues today.
boy,
2013 has been off to a gay start, hasn’t it?
she says you are not gay until you self id as gay.
which means you can suck and fuck whoever you want.
just don’t say you are the “g” word.
look at what she had to say on her twitter this morning…

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FOXMAIL

Hey Jamari, I’v been reading your blog for about 2years and all I can say is you are doing absolutely great things. Much love.
I am a 27yr old DL fox from a conservative background in West Africa. I am pretty successful here. I met this 23yr old wolf around my ‘hood while jogging one day. We became friends and got closer. He was straight until I noticed he started acting weird and making some very direct compliments. He said he likes me a lot. I rebuffed him for quite a while until I was sure he wasn’t playing- I’m not one to convert straight guys.

This wolf is a muscular, cute sweetheart who quickly became a staple in my family home(and my life). My family see him like my junior brother but we were much more than that. We started dating and when it got down to d crunch- he is so well-endowed I bled the 1st time. I cldnt get myself to do it again(and he was of the same notion). Long story short- I fell in love with him. He still kicks it with vixens but I’m d only guy.

After 6months of dating (enjoying the friendship too), I realised he doesn’t feel the same way I do. He acts weird when I tell him my feelings, he isn’t d romantic type, he bangs some round-the-way hos(cos he says he wants a quick-no-feelings bang). He lives 5mins away from me. I’m completely heartbroken cos I stupidly fell in love with a guy who just confessed that he cnt grow to love a guy. I’m devastated cos I’v invested so much into this and nothing is forthcoming. We are good friends but we come from 2 different lifestyles and ideals.

How do I get over him? Unlove him- cos I guess its so convenient for him to be the centre of my attention(and I’m a Cancer, I love hard and I kinda take care of him to some extent). I see him EVERYDAY. He claims he’s trying but he keeps lying to me about the skenks he bumps uglies with(I aint against heterosexual sex but he can do waaaaaay better- he loves sex- but not with people who are immature, shady and steal from u).

Please help me(talk some sense into me). I wanna get over him but I can’t. I do deserve better.

MY ANSWER…

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before i get into this video,
i nearly didn’t post it.

THIS NIGGA IS DOING WAY TO MUCH!

ain’t no reason this shit is 12:51.
and he is EXTRAAAAAAA.
way too fucking extra.
he is trying to spread the message,
but tongue poppin’, “girl”, and doing all this bullshit.
we don’t give a fuck about your phone or your pants.
focus nigga.
he needs a cue card and adhd pill.

… but, he was on point with his assumptions.
i have also noticed some of the things he spoke about….

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FOX MAIL

Ok so there is this guy that goes to my school, and he is very handsome, and we are cool, we speak to each other all the time when we speak or smile, but he is talks to alot of girls, I think he might be BI or Gay..He has a son though and again he is flirtatious with girl, but i’m trying to figure out if he is gay, how do I approach him and ask him, I dont want to come off as thirsty or anything what do you think? how should I go about this should I be flirtatious to him or should I leave it alone, please help!

MY ANSWER…

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i always see this asshole every time i go to times square.

this gorilla damn near tried to fight me because i pulled my phone out to snap his picture.
yet, he let all of the lily white gays take his picture/video though.
you can read about that whole situation here.

funny how i find out how much secrets about him.
i just don’t get these stupid niggas in this world today.

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