i’m very lenient on males who realize they’re attracted to other males,
unlike others.
don’t get me wrong,
some shit makes my head spin around in disgust,
but other things i don’t attack as fast as others.
i’ve been there as being someone who was attracted to other males,
but terrified in allowing myself to feel those feelings.

What will my family think?
What will the people in Barbados think?
What will people that are around me think?
Will I be shunned and ostracized?

no matter the age,
it can be a culture shock and huge life adjustment especially with all the “rules” within this life.
 it’s very scary,
but this is one thing i won’t tolerate…

Continue reading “i don’t do the “i like him, but i’m scared of my attraction to other males” types of headaches” →

you’re interested this guy in your real life.
i mean,
you realllllllllllly like this guy.
he might not be “the fantasy guy”,
but he is sexy af to you.
he shows you hints and clues into his interest for you as well.
there is a connection there.
so it’s in the bag,
right?
nah it’s not.
why…

Continue reading “boy if you don’t come get this good stuff and stop these games (but same could be said for me too)” →

everyone in this life has different experiences.
some of us are out and dealt with every male under the sun.
others are dl and its mostly sexual.
then there is the in-between who are waiting for “mister right” instead of “right now”.
we have all met various males who will break their rules for us.

The “I will only let you TOP me”
The “I will only be on the BOTTOM for you”

i was having a chat with a foxholer about a certain type of male in the life tho.
the one who will only deal with one male and that’s YOU…

Continue reading “it’s something about you that makes him harder than chinese arithmetic” →

people are so bizarre.
i find them all fascinating.
this is why i love being a blogger.
so zac efron is playing serial killing hyena,
ted bundy,
in a new movie.
the movie is called “extremely wicked, shockingly evil and vile”.
this is the trailer:

netflix has a documentary on ted bundy as well:

in a weird twist of fate,
ted bundy has a ton of stans.
i mean vixens alleged wanted (and still want) to give him the pussy,
even though he has committed such heinous crimes.
it’s telling netflix had to post this tweet today…

Continue reading “ted bundy brings the horny out of you” →

last night,
i went out with the pretty vixen and a wolf we both know.
i met them down the city at a happy hour spot.
at the end of the night,
the pretty vixen sent me a text saying:

“you attract a lot of dl everything”

i am starting to see it nowadays…
Continue reading “All The DL Wolves Love Me” →

So I just met someone who knows the manager to…
Continue reading “… and the plot thickens.” →