everyone in this life has different experiences.
some of us are out and dealt with every male under the sun.
others are dl and its mostly sexual.
then there is the in-between who are waiting for “mister right” instead of “right now”.
we have all met various males who will break their rules for us.
The “I will only let you TOP me”
The “I will only be on the BOTTOM for you”
i was having a chat with a foxholer about a certain type of male in the life tho.
the one who will only deal with one male and that’s YOU…
the foxholer was telling me about a wolf he met at work.
it was a lot of low-key flirting and eye sexin’ between them.
one thing led to another and they ended up having sex.
the wolf never messed with another male after him.
he went off and got him a girlfriend,
but will still keep the contact open for the future.
in this life,
you will meet another male that is drawn to your energy.
often times it’s un-explainable.
it’s just something about YOU that moves his meter.
you can put a ton of other males in his presence and he won’t feel anything.
he might even feel uncomfortable.
you walk in the room tho…
i know for many,
this probably sounds ridiculous because it’s either “he gay or nah?”.
it’s no secret that some males are simply physically and sexually attracted to you.
once you drawn them in emotionally,
it’s pretty much over.
attraction can be a confusing thing at times.
there are males that you’ve been around that the attraction is on high.
you can literally feel the energy between you both.
in some cases,
other people can feel it too.
they always want to be in your radar or be around you.
they have to let you know through actions they are into you.
if they build up the courage to pursue,
they will fuck you into the next dimension.
some will get too shook that they never speak to you again,
while others end up being “the one“.
they’ll get into that will be in brand new relationships,
but will drop what they’re doing if you text them.
they might even send you random nudes so you won’t forget.
I’ve always wanted a energetic hold on a wolf like that.
it reminds me of the character,
from the late e lynn harris books.
he was drawn to raymond,
even though he turned all kinds of males and vixens out.
there is something sexy about someone who is addicted to you and only you.
i find that can be the beauty of this life we live.
if you’re lucky,
you’re meet another male that you’re energetically linked to and the adventures that follows.
lowkey: there are attentionistos who are in full blown relationships on ig,
but you can tell just by their energy.
it’s not broadcasted.
you just “know”.