colton underwood only came out because he was being blackmailed for his sexuality?

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colton underwood shares some of the same sentiments we have faced as gay or bi males.
as you know he was the former abc’s “the bachelor” who ( x came out as gay recently ).
he realized he was gay at a young age but came from a strict christian background.
he played football to try to blend in with the straights,
but you can only run from yourself for so long.

Think about all the folks who ran from themselves until their death beds?

according to colton,
he came out because he was being blackmailed

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being raised in barbados wasn’t all sunshine and palm trees

my reality is different from some of my family members it seems.
i’m starting to realize that.
even though i love my grandmother,
it is no secret that she was abusive to us.
i think many caribbean people faced a shit ton of abuse.
the last conversation i had with my father made me realize something

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how can you be trans and outing males like messy gay men? (pooh shiesty)

so i never heard of rapping wolf,
pooh shiesty.
his existence was a secret to me like this alleged story.
pooh shiesty allegedly got outed fuckin’ a trans-vixen.
this is the alleged video,
which involved a mouth full of cake and a serving of…

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they meet you on grindr, take you on a date, and rob you as a night cap

every time i talk to someone about a dating app,
the foxhole sends me a story about some fuck shit going down on the app.
i just had a conversation about dating online and how it isn’t safe.
it’s true.
online dating isn’t safe.
period.
gay males are a target for the broke dusties on grindr in atl…

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ellen is up outta here (welp)


you would think someone who was treated badly before they came up would be different.
i never in a million years would have seen this end for ellen.
there was a point that i wanted to meet ellen before she retired.

Dream deferred.

even though i loved her brand of sarcastic dry humor,
the stories about her alleged nasty attitude were legendary.
people who worked for her would spare no details on how they were treated bts.
( x her old dj is one of them )
folks try to send warning shots but the masses don’t listen until it’s too late.
this is years before the allegations started to burn.
ellen’s run in the talk show world has come to an end

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joe budden burns the bridges his friends helped build for him (rory and mal)

joe budden isn’t coming off like a good person.
i fucked with him on his podcast,
and there was a time i thought he was cute,
but he has shown patterns of not being good.
he might just be the villain that we ignored (or kept in the back of our minds).
on his podcast,
the joe budden podcast“,
he fired his two co-hosts and friends(?),
rory and mal.
 the way he trashed them on his podcast…

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