life has a way of humbling us.
we don’t realize it until all the pieces come together.
Some of us are currently setting up the play for a future humbling.
mi has no more allies.
everyone who had her back has either died or distanced themselves.
her cousin was a good person tbh.
her death really fucked up many people.
they had to close down her job for the day just to mourn.
i found out yesterday…
My sister fell out with her before she was killed.
this is another person who has died on mi while being on bad terms.
another person on the long list of folks she pushed away with hr fucked birthday.
the sad part is her cousin taught her so much,
exposed her to so much,
and my sister didn’t seem to learned or have appreciated anything.
it might be due to her mental illnesses,
but the therapy isn’t working or she isn’t working with it.
humans love to take folks for granted.
we always assume they will be there after we push them away.
once they don’t want to continue a relationship with us,
pass away unexpectedly,
or stop producing content or entertainment,
that’s when we suddenly realize what we lost.
it’s crazy that we’ll roll out the red carpet for assholes and the ones who were sent to destroy us.
i’m here to font…
WE NEED TO GET IT TOGETHER,
If someone is genuinely in your corner and fucks with you heavy,
make them feel appreciated and loved.
If someone is providing content and entertainment we enjoy,
we need to make them feel like they are seen and their work matters to us.
If you are genuinely into someone,
or the relationship isn’t working anymore,
we should give them the grace of a proper goodbye.
Let’s stop showing love to toxic-ass jackals/hyenas,
on and off situationships,
and those who legit remind us of those who have abused us.
when someone we took for granted unexpectedly dies,
we lose them to someone else who really appreciates them,
or they find their worth to stop fuckin’ with our ungrateful asses,
that shouldn’t be the moment we start to realize how much they meant to us.
lowkey: it’s okay to genuinely be unattracted to people or certain things.
you can’t force a vibe or energy where it’s nonexistent.
that doesn’t mean you have to be a bitch or an asshole either.
as we get older and life continues to move,
along this weird time period,
people in our lives will start dying.