what’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “gay” ?

that hand has been used to describe me more often than not.
that picture always unlocks a trigger.
i saw a thread on reddit titled:

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “Gay” ?

i know this topic all to well.
many of us were tortured by this growing up.
minding our business,
drinking our koolaid snaps,
and someone telling us something we are doing is “gay”.
i can name 2 that stick out in my head…

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the new baller wolf on the block that everyone thinks odell beckham jr has turned out?

some of us may have the same issue that odell beckham jr suffers with.

Anytime we befriend another male and it’s strictly platonic,
the rumors start flying that we’re are smashin’ on the low.

which causes the other male to stop speaking to you.
he gets spooked and suddenly starts trying to prove his straightness.
the sad part is:

Odell Beckham Jr is straight and hasn’t confirmed his sexuality.
The rumors of his sexuality plague his actual talent as a baller wolf.

the rumors about many of us are worse than the actual truth.
this is the latest baller wolf that is about to be “hyper straight” in a few weeks…

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a demon left this earth and we got no justice for her sins (carolyn bryant donham)

sometimes,
we don’t get the retribution we desire.
sometimes,
we watch those who did us wrong live good lives.
sometimes,
we don’t become “better than them“.
sometimes,
we don’t get justice.
emmett till never got justice for his wrongful death back in 1955.
the demon hyena behind his murder,
carolyn bryant donham,
has finally left this earth…

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what is the point of being a black celebrity nowadays? it seems like hell.

i was telling a foxholer yesterday:

“I would NEVER want to be a celebrity.
I would NEVER want to be in the public eye.”

why?
because we don’t treat these people well…

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“…and then we wonder why these black menz go out with white womenz”

i’ve come to realize:

There are some people who have never been treated well.

the “all my life i had to fight” types.
so…

They don’t know how to act when someone is being genuinely kind to them.

you try to date them and they’ll treat you like shit.
you try to be friends with them and they’ll treat you like shit.
they’re always on guard,
looking for “ops”,
or will call you corny because you don’t come in the shade “triflin’ af”.

 

it’s like the gays who try to cape for the attentionistos.

The “let me try to show him kindness so he can like me” types

God,
i use to be that brand of pick me too.
a wolf in the following story tried to take a vixen out on a date.
she curves him as a result because…

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i’m grieving today

we never talk about grieving enough.
when you hear the word “grieve”,
you think it comes from mourning the death of a loved one.

“I grieved the loss of Star Fox.”

…but we don’t actually realize that we can grieve a living person.
we grieve the loss of people who are still alive in many different ways.
i’m grieving today

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