Are you a bitch?
I’m just asking.
I like to know who I am dealing with.
Sure, I am always down for being an asshole when someone makes that mistake.
People need to know that as a Fox, Wolf, or Hybrid, you do not take disrespect kindly.
But, what happens when everyone you meet is just an extra in Mean Girls 3?
Is this lifestyle just full of wanna-be plastics?
Why is everyone striving to be the next “Regina George“?
Why are these grown men lighting up cigarettes, tossing their hair back, and being “cunt queens”?
I had to wonder….
Is this lifestyle just one big girl’s bathroom?
MyVidster has the nastiest comments.
Not nasty like:
“yo i busted a fat nut and licked it off my keyboard.”
I’m talking nasty as in being extremely ignant for fucks sake.
Yesterday, I posted an entry about Lev’ell Cole and how fucking sexy he is.
An agent from the F-BI happened to find a video with him on there (proud of my new recruits).
I read the comments and I was so confused at where all the mud slinging was coming from?
Or, why it was okay to simply cut his throat like he worked closely with Osama Bin Laden?
Not knowing him from a can of paint, I was a little disturbed.
Did he fuck em and leave em?
How did they find out this man’s business?
And, why were they so invested in his life to slander him in a comment box?
I remember back in the mid 2000s,
there was this website made called “Exclusivity“.
In order for you to join,
you had to send in pictures to the site and the people behind the scene decided your fate on approval.
As the site grew, it became “Above The Life“.
I won’t lie: I met the finest Wolves in my entire life off that site.
It was a whole different crowd from BGC and A4A, which made it refreshing.
That is where I met a D/L college football player
(not to mention a FIONE ass model and an sexy investment banker).
Although nothing came of it, we talked a lot until he started getting heavy into getting drafted.
The owner was not your standard “fine” Wolf.
He was very insecure about his looks, but he was really a nice guy.
He would organize games, contests, and be open to suggestion.
He was a struggling college student, who was spending his money keeping the site up for us.
Well, some Jackals and Hyenas infiltrated the site and sent him personal destructive messages.
They were fighting with him, talking about how “ugly” he was, and being very difficult.
(This is what I was told.)
He gave a two week notice he was cancelling the site,
and in a week he shut it down.
I remember I was talking to this fine ass Wolf who wanted to meet up.
Before I could get his number,
the site was gone.
WE JUST CAN’T HAVE SHIT, CAN’T WE?
I notice this trend in the Jungles of this lifestyle.
These people want this “great” life of money and power, but some of them live like lowlifes.
Same fucking story of grown men being simple bitches.
They take being nasty to innocent people to a whole new level.
The people they need to be expelling that HATE to, they are too busy trying to suck their little dicks.
It is fucking ridiculous.
They spend days calling people out for being queens, when they are what they are hating on.
Don’t even get me started on the outings.
BUT, we want to play victim when done to us by a straight Wolf, or even a Vixen.
I feel everyone should take mental inventory of their current standings.
Have you noticed that all these people being so nasty,
are pretty much NOWHERE in their lives?
They spend so much time worried about other people,
that they have their own skeletons and cemeteries to worry about.
If people are actually getting life from bitches from the Real Housewives, BBW, and Regina George…
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Your so-called friends will talk the most shit about you. This lifestyle is filled with so much drama and mess…
It’s not my fault im popular. Lol
Because they’re all sad, insecure, and hate themselves. That’s why.
Granted, there are those out here that truly deserve the hate they receive. I know a guy who has literally done wrong every guy he’s ever dated or befriended. He’s uses them only for what they can give him and people really and truly dislike him. If you speak to him, he will tell you they’re all just hating on him and are jealous of whatever “success” he thinks he has, but the truth is, the hate is warranted.
For others, however, it really is because they don’t like themselves. They believe it makes them better to be able to put down someone else and it’s sad.
What’s even more sad is these are usually the very same people who bitch and moan about being mistreated.
Usually just skip the comments if I go to myvidster. It’s usually a bunch of shade throwing or “X” has H.I.V or ‘Y” is really bottom like they said about the guy here. What I don’t think I’ll ever get is why the guys spending time slandering in comment section and whom most likely bottom themselves see it fit to use the word bottom as it’s some sort of a diss? It’s like self hatred 101 imo. Always confused me.
I think the Internet gives rise to some of it – just because of the anonymity it affords. People feel empowered to say ish they wouldn’t normally.
Then there is a culture of entitlement recently. It’s all ‘gimme gimme gimme’ with no work put in. When everyone is special, no one is — it’s a bit of a mess.
It doesn’t help that we (culture/media at large) showcase these bytches and give them a platform (see Kardashians, BBW, Love & Hip-Hop, et. al), so nice guys stay losing.
If they can’t have it, you can’t either — crabs in a barrel mentality.
Shame – that site sounded kinda cool.
My first thought was: who in the hell reads, much less leaves, comments on porn site? It’s not a debate, it’s a orgasm inducing activity site–hopefully.
Two major problems are that many people are insecure as everyone has already and that too many people are busy living a lifestyle instead of living their individual lives.
Top and bottom are not fixed positions inside or outside the bedroom–they are temporary labels at best. The same for masculine and feminine. Any variations of the aforementioned labels, based a person’s beliefs or values, causes a lot of problems. Add in race issues and you have a mixture of bitter bitches on your hands.
At same point in life, everyone has to figure out what works best for them so in spite of what anyone else has to say about it.
People are just full of a lot of issues and insecurites period. If people were honest with themselves, they would not have to make hell for other people to make themselves feel better. Rememeber, when people act like assholes, it comes from some place. Either they learned it from someone else, or it’s something that comes from deep down within. Let me tell you this, I don’t get along with every dude in this lifestyle, and I’m not talking about fems. I never got along with the downlow and the other discreet brothers. I’ve had guys trying to start convos. with me, and when I didn’t want to talk to them, they turned on me, and they knew that I knew whet their intentions were, that’s why it happened.You guys know that niggas in this life get bitter when you turn them down, and they will go to great lengths to fuck up your life after that. The first thing they do is tell everyone that you’re gay, whether it’s true or not yup, y’all know how niggas can be. I had a friend who was only being my friend just because he wanted to fuck me, yup, he sure did, now that’s common as hell.
Those people on Myvidster talking about Levell Cole were nothing but some bitter ass queens and those types are the worse ones. Levell did one hell of a job trying to entertain those people,(he damn sure entertained me) and some people were throwing shade to him for more reasons other than the video. Talking about how he’s a queen and how he’s a bottom, so what. What the hell is wrong with being a bottom? Nothing. Most niggas in this life are bottoms the last time I checked. We all get shade period from straights because we all sleep with men. It’s no exucse for guys to throw shade at someone based on their preference or sex role.
People are going to talk about you until the day you die period, so everyone has to get over it and deal with it. It’s a part of life.
S/N: Exclusivity sounded like a good site Jamari. People always have to mess shit up.
^it was very positive Man.
i felt it was everything i speak about on this site.
*pours likka out*
I dont understand why some gays fight for equality when there is so much self hate in this lifestyle…. smh…
Not saying equality shouldnt be fought for…
I just went back to read those comments and they all need to have a _/ …. Its rediculous how ppl have to talk shit about someone they probably google’d a million times, so what if he bottom’d, Im pretty sure all them bitches who commented done bottom’d there holes into orbit… theyre just too catty, its like theyre hating the very thing they do, its so confusing to me.
Yea it really pisses me off too. It’s like damn it’s just porn bust a nit and keep it moving hoe. It’s very pathetic if you ask me. You should’ve seen the comments on a nice2easy video, the girls were lying saying the boy was positive and passing around the bug like it was candy. That’s why I have more straight friends than gay friends because it’s just too MESSY. Let’s not even get into guys/girls in the ballroom scene, I have family members who walk and the gossip, slander, and exposures are 10x worst
Its allot of insecurities in the lifestyle, some people need to feel important by making other people feel less than. As soon as you don’t pay these flaming queens any attention, they turn into a primal rage of pure Bitchyness….BGC is the perfect example. Levell probably didn’t pay some of those Queens the time of day, so what they do?… vent out their frustration on a Porn site that has videos posted of him.
They can’t get to him directly but they can at least try to damage his rep to feel better about themselves…Same can be said with straight wolves, they ignore these internet queens to the point of pure obscurity and as a result they feel the need to talk shit about the straight wolves. Why? Because they know the wolf in particular would reject their homosexual advances, Its shameful behavior.
like the saying goes Misery keeps company or in these cases desires it.
I don’t understand this new trend either.
It’s just a bunch of kids who never grew up with TOO much times on their hands. I don’t pay it no mind. I am sure I get a lot of nasty comments and such but it’s none of my business.
Then you have those low key bitches who always got something to nip pick about. I can’t men who act like that. Men aren’t suppose to be catty. It’s just not a good look.
My mama always told me, if they ain’t talking about you at all, THAT’S when you would worry about it!
At the end of the day, it makes them feel better about themselves.
Again none of my business..
Excuse the typos today..there is something in my eye!
^great response either way!