I’m Standing By My Man (Cheating, Pills, and All)

it is an absolute shame about “pill bill” cosby.
“the cosby show”
is damn near ruined.
his legacy is pretty much a joke.
irony?
his wife,
camille cosby,
is stickin’ by her husband tho.
i don’t know if he has given her pills or she is just delusional.
can’t say that hoe ain’t loyal tho.
this is what a source told the new york post

Bill Cosby’s wife knows her husband is a serial philanderer, but believes his scores of accusers consented to drugs and sex, two confidants of the couple say.

Last week’s revelation that Cosby admitted during a deposition that he intended to ply women with Quaaludes before bedding them barely fazed Camille Cosby, the ­insiders told The Post.

“Camille still doesn’t believe that Bill provided drugs and had sex with women without their consent,” said a source employed by the Cosby family. “She’s well aware of his cheating, but she doesn’t believe that her husband is a rapist.”

Mrs. Cosby is “a proud, dignified but stubborn woman. You can say that she’s standing by her husband, but really, the more people stand against him, the more she perceives it as an affront to her and all that she’s done to make him a star,” said another source who’s done business with the ­Cosbys and remains close to them.

Camille Cosby, 71, who is also her 78-year-old husband’s business manager, demanded last week at a crisis meeting with advisers that their lawyers and p.r. specialists “get back out in front of this,” the business source said.

“I created him, I knew what I was getting and we’ll fix this,” she told the gathering at a meeting at the couple’s Shelburne Falls, Mass., home Tuesday night.

“They are making him out to be such a bad guy, a monster,” Camille said, according to the source.

“People are jumping ship,” she added in an apparent reference to actress Jill Scott, who now says she’s sorry for her staunch support of Cosby, and comedian Jimmy Walker, another onetime defender who now calls America’s Dad the “O.J. Simpson of comedy.”

As prosecutors in Los Angeles and Las Vegas reportedly take a closer look at Cosby’s nearly 50 alleged sexual assaults on women dating back five decades, advisers last week urged him to sever ties with virtually everyone and permanently halt any comeback attempts.

“It’s advisable that you close ranks. That means [cut off] family, Hollywood family, friends, Hollywood friends,” the star was told, according to the business partner.

Camille Cosby remains on Bill’s side, despite his constant cheating.

She “stopped being embarrassed long ago” by her husband’s affairs, the family source said, but cannot tolerate the “invasion of privacy.”

The infidelities were “personal, between Bill and I,” she’s told her circle, the source said.

According to the family source, Camille confided, “You have to allow for space to let your partner do what he wants. I have done that and [Bill] has done that and there’s no jealously, no friction.”

She said every so often the couple goes through an “evaluation period” to determine whether the marriage should continue. “She even once talked to Oprah Winfrey about cleansing herself of baggage every now and again and how it always seems to lead her back to staying with Bill,” the family source said.

Rev. Carl Dianda, the couple’s longtime spiritual adviser who presided over their marriage 51 years ago, told The Post his “heart breaks” for her.

“She made so many sacrifices for him to have a career.”

wdOTjfOshe obviously doesn’t want to believe this news.
hell if she was a good wife,
she should have told him sit his ass down than doing that comedy tour last year.
i had second hand embarrassment for him:

16901585-mmmainthe sweat shirt and the shoes
i can’t.
obviously she is from the old school and isn’t going anywhere.
hell where can she go?
she is damn near 72.

this whole situation made me wonder about standing by yours.
in the midst of a scandal,
after being the supportive party throughout your man’s career,
do you still ryde for him?
or do you cut ties and throw up the dueces?
everyone is saying she is stupid,
including myself,
but is just “stupid in love”?
or is she being “a good vixen” to a old jackal we just don’t see?
they have been married 50 years,
had 5 children,
and lost one due to murder.
i’m sure its not easy to pick up and leave him,
but the old jackal was supposedly drugging and raping vixens.
like over 40 of em have come out with allegations already.
like…

giphy…and i’m never coming back.
even if his body looks like this:

tumblr_nr58jdP5WU1qb4g34o1_1280“bye bye”.
so i had to wonder

…At what point of the scandal would you leave your man?

and if it was you in a scandal:

How would you feel if he left you?

lowkey: is just lets you know you need to be content with your own lives.
you look at people and think they are perfect.
nope.
we all have secrets.
some worse than others.

article taken: ny post

pictures credited: evan vucci | debbie noda

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

16 thoughts on “I’m Standing By My Man (Cheating, Pills, and All)

  1. This is a heartbreaking, she has known for years about her husbands ways but still stands by him and supports him, now this’s truly love, just not the kind I think I need. I’m not going to keep looking the other way with shit like that. At some point my pride comes into play.

  2. This is tough, but the vows said:”I, Camille, take thee Bill, to be my husband, and before God and these witnesses I promise to be a faithful and true wife.”

    “With this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow. In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, ’til death do us part.”

    Shit, after 50 years she better just ride it out. He more than likely confessed everything to her years ago. I would be crushed, but after 50 years…I’m standing by my man. She’s probably the only friend he has..

    1. After 50 years she might as well just ride it out? Um, why? LOL
      I mean sure, its not like her final 20 years will make up for the 50 years of philandering, but life’s too short to be unhappy for another 20 years (IF IT UPSETS YOU!)

      This “woman” though doesn’t seem upset or phased by this at all though so maybe in her case this makes “sense” for her to stick with her “man”.

      I don’t care if I’m 95, the moment I find out about stuff like this, I’m out. My final 5 years are too precious to me to spend it with someone who’s just going to use and abuse the situation.

      I will never associate myself with someone so disgusting. Vows Shmows. Values are important too me, if you don’t have none, then well, bye.

      If she’s the only friend he has, that’s his problem, learn to make some new friends lol.

      Idk, i feel as though if I allow this behaviour out of pity for someone, then I might as well be justifying it, and allowing that kind of behaviour. That behaviour needs not be tolerated.

  3. This is the quote that got me: “she made so many sacrifices for him to have a career.” Basically her whole life has been living in the shadow of her husband. They’ve been married for a very long time so I feel as if she doesn’t really know how to see herself outside of him. I think a long and fruitful marriage is one of the most beautiful things life has to offer but I simply refuse to allow my husband to disrespect me or others (especially in this manner). I believe in love and forgiveness but this is an EMBARRASSMENT, not just to Bill Cosby himself but his wife as well. I pray she receives the discernment that she’s desperately in need of.

    1. I agree. Even though she should leave her husband, but she’s old school and when she promise the priest and God to stay with her husband for better, for worst. The worst had came and she’s still sticking with her man. A lot of people seem to forget that Camille is from an era where cheating, murder, raping was acceptable, but always turn a blind eye on the situation because have to stay faithful to the husband. Fucked up, but it the truth.

  4. She is just as pathetic as Bishop Eddie Long’s wife and Penn State’s Jerry Sandusky’s wife.I am not going to stand by a man who sexually molest children or sexually assaults women.If we are to believe,which I don’t, that these women consented to be drugged before having sex with him.Why is it a woman needs to be drugged to have sex with Bill ,why does she need to be semi conscious? What man wants to have sex with a semi conscious or unconscious woman.Camille is a “Proud” woman who has no problem with her husband screwing hundreds of women? He tried to rape Beverly Johnson in their house that he shared with Camille with staff in the house.Sick

    1. That “story” has never been substantiated. Her former manager says Beverly was not telling the truth. It was reportedly one time Beverly visited the Cosby home..it was for Brunch and Camille was present.

      1. Mr Cosby hasn’t denied it.As a matter of fact he has yet to do an interview denying any of the fifty accusers’ stories.His attorney wouldn’t let him answer the question,Did you ever give any woman drugs without their knowledge? Why wouldn’t he answer that question unless he gave women Qualudes without their knowledge?

        1. That’s the attorney’s job. Just because you don’t answer the question at that time doesn’t mean your guilty of anything.

  5. This situation is truly sad. I wonder what happened behind the scenes of The Cosby Show. I follow Lisa Bonet daughter on Instagram and Lisa seems just like any other normal mom. When they aired E true Hollywood years ago they said she was a problem on the show. I’m starting to think there was more to that situation and she is not all that guilty I think it’s more to that story. As for Camille idk what to think. I definetly think she knew what was going on behind the scenes, her being that old she probably doesn’t see the need of divorcing. I just hope she is not in denial. For me I always use to say cheating was a deal breaker but now idk. A lot of men cheat straight and gay it’s sad but it is what it is. Now of course I wouldn’t tolerate or be with someone who did stuff that Bill Cosby did that shit is sick.

  6. There’s a woman who said that she’s consented to having sex with Bill. She mentioned that she took the pills willingly and enjoyed the moment. Back in the days that was the thing to do, like folks popping mollys today. She believes some of the women may just be jumping on that train of accusers. You know the “court of public opinion” can be a strong tool to use when the statute of limitations has run its course. Just because I lot of folks say it doesn’t make it so. The difference is, in civil court it’s goes by a “preponderance of evidence”, as opposed to criminal which is more so “beyond a “reasonable doubt.” So right now I’d like to hold off until that day in court.

    1. So if some of the women are jumping on the bandwagon that means some women are telling the truth.If one woman is telling the truth than he is a rapist.If your mother or aunt was that woman….
      So fifty woman are lying and one man is telling the truth or
      1 man is telling the truth and fifty women are lying
      Because if one woman is telling the truth than Bill Cosby is a rapist.

  7. Well if she can and by him, she can fall with him as well. Apparently she is a ride til you die type a woman. As a woman, where are your morals at? He drugged multiple women…SMH

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