f0xmail: I Just Want Head…and That’s It! Help!

*the following entry is parental advisory.
graphic language and images a bound!


Hey Jamari,

I’m going into my fifth year of college. Five years ago I thought college would be the time to really find myself but I haven’t done much of that. I’ve achieved in all other areas, top of my class, damn near 4.0 GPA, recognized leader on campus, going into my senior year with job offers in a good STEM field but my sex life still isnt figured out and I’ve been working since freshman year. I started looking at guys more but I noticed I don’t really like guys, I just like dick if that makes sense, and I only like head, no bottoming or topping. I tried going back to girls but I wasn’t getting up and it was awkward for both parties. I’m not into guys emotionally but it’s hard to get turned on by girls physically. I’m DL and also don’t want my business out there so I try not to mess around too much. What should I do?


first i want to give a huge congrats!
you’re making serious moves in college and that needs recognizing.
thank you for reaching out and continued luck on your educational journey!
now to this foxmail…

when i use to run wild on the sex sites,
i would see profiles for a “oral wolf” or a “oral fox”.
that meant they didn’t want anything but to get/give head.
for some,
that is more than enough to keep someone satisfied.
the oral wolves profile was always attached to the sexiest bawdies tho.
i figured they were probably dl and loved the head only foxes gave.
our jaws tend to be stronger than our vixen counterparts.
it’s okay to only want/give just head.
that is your thing and you shouldn’t feel ashamed for it.
we all liked to be fucked/sucked a certain way.
this is what makes us all so different in this sexual realm.
it all leads to one thing at the end…


so reader,
if this is what you like,
there is a category for you.
i’m glad you realize:

vixens don’t do it for you
you won’t lead any males on

so a sex site would be your best option.
even though they are a bit messy these days,
that seems like the way to go with this particular “want”.
when searching for that “want”,
be clear it’s only just head.
since you’re dl,
you’ll have to do a thoro screening process unfortunately.
the nastier they appear…
…the messier they can be.
other than that,
be careful and get that paperwork.
there are a ton of diseases that come with head.
i would hate to see a promising individual,
with what sounds like a bright future,
getting a whole caught up out there.
that was shade.
keep me posted!


Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

10 thoughts on “f0xmail: I Just Want Head…and That’s It! Help!”

  1. Jamari, I agree that there are many sexually transmitted infections that are associated with sucking dick–if you are the sucker of dick. But my impression is that if you are the one getting your dick sucked, then there are few–if any–sexually transmitted infections associated with getting your dick sucked. (Well one is herpes if the sucker of dicks has a herpes infection in the mouth. But if someone has a herpes infection in the mouth, that someone is unlikely to want to suck dick and the sores will likely be present and visible and serve as a warning to the person who has his dick sucked. HIV is unlikely to be transmitted to the person having his dick sucked.)

    What do you know that I don’t know? Please let me–and your fair readers–know your thoughts on this specific matter. Hepatitis? Syphilis? Gonorrhea? Chlamydia? Inquiring minds want to know.

    1. ^at this point,
      it’s best to request paperwork to make sure the person you are engaging in sexual activity is clean.
      the world is over sexed and dealing with the repercussions of it.

  2. And, by the way, Jamari, 25% of gay men do not engage in anal penetration. That is, they neither have their anal “area” penetrated nor do they penetrate the anal “area” of others.

    1. Im one of them bro. At this point in my early 30’s I am strictly into Foreplay and not really mouth stuff unless it’s nipple play or talking shit. Lol. Im more into Frot. I barely even like people anymore anyway. Oh well. Lol

  3. 95% of the time I just want to give/get oral during sexual contact w/ other guys. I just don’t enjoy anal as much as some other bottoms and etc.

    Honestly I don’t know why he is feeling bad at least he understands and knows himself there are going to be a lot of guys that do.

  4. Where do you live? LOL because location has a lot to do with the amount of gay people who live close by. I live in a very tourist attracted metropolitan city so when I used to be on those sex apps there would ALWAYS be guys out there begging to give head to somebody. It was so common but I wasn’t into that stuff so I never responded to them. If you are the oral giver then that’s a different story, but I asked because in my experience it is very easy to go and receive head from somebody if you just simply join a sex app. I was very ripped so maybe that played a part in why I received so many messages but either way it shouldn’t be that hard to find somebody to give you oral if that’s what you want.

    And btw I don’t think I’m that much into anal anyway, too much work, pain & preparation. Just give me foreplay with a guy who has a pretty penis (for oral) and then we’re good to go.

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