Sometimes…
You can’t understand what it’s like for someone else until you’ve had to put on their shoes.

it’s easy to judge until we have been in the same situation as another.
afterward,
some of us beez like:

“I see what Jamari was talking about now.”

“I see what Mo’Nique was talking about now.”

as tami roman in the bonnet chronicles would say:
“get into it.”
i didn’t understand mo’nique a few years ago when she was going off.
she had all the smoke for lee daniels,
oprah,
and tyler perry.
they are three of the most powerful black folks in the industry.
“she should have played the game” is one thing i use to say.
“she is talking too much” was another.
it wasn’t until i had a similar experience a year later…

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i thought india.arie would go sit down,
connect with her earth mother,
channel our ancestors,
and have a meeting of where she went wrong.
( x see here she went wrong )
nope.
she decides to backtrack again on her stance on joe rogan.
he is “consciously racist” per trevor noah on “the daily show“…

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guys…
The Universe loves me!
the other day,
i was watching laura dern videos from big little lies on hbo.
she played my favorite karens named renata klein on that show.

i randomly asked myself if she would ever do another jurassic park.
this happened today with the new trailer for “jurassic world dominion“…

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i’ve had plenty of girl crushes before.
i’m gay but still allowed to find vixen’s beautiful.
last night,
i realized something…

I had a huge crush on Vivica A. Fox when I was a kid.

i came to that conclusion when i saw viv do this recent tiktok “they call me” challenge…

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this is why i always tell folks…

WAIT UNTIL THE FULL STORY COMES OUT AND AN EXTRA 2 WEEKS FOR GOOD MEASURE.

why?
it will often reveal the truth and if someone(s) is stupid or not.
you don’t blindly follow anything until you have the full story.
india.arie was making headlines over her pulling her music off spotify.
she was against joe rogan,
his alleged vaccine views,
his alleged racist views,
and how she was against sharing a platform with him.

it seems she has changed her mind about the racism on “don lemon tonight”…

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i think but i’m not sure…
i wrote about my time going to “the wendy williams show”.
i went with pose and it was right when the show first started.
the episode we were on never aired,
but i was in the promo for a little while.
fun fact?
i knew with all the pushbacks,
featured guests,
and no shows that aunt wendy was done.
you could tell she was not coming back and was holding the show hostage.
well after 13 seasons,
aunt wendy has allegedly come to an end of her own show.
the new alleged host is…

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