I’m going to use Charlie as an example for this upcoming entry.
Disclaimer: I’m NOT implying that Charlie is down for the Foxhole.
There is no confirmation besides he is STRAIGHT as far as I know.
I still think he is fine AF even though he annoyed me being on that reality show.
I tell/font him that to his face but I digress…

i read a reddit sub a while back where a fox met a fine wolf at the gym,
and the wolf legit started talking to him out of interest,
and the fox was asking himself:

“Why would he even be interested in me?”

…because he felt he wasn’t “just as fine” too.
apparently,
the fox is average in all areas.
so let’s font that the fox goes on autopilot and later on down the road,
they fall into in a relationship because the wolf is genuinely into him…

The insecurities that this Wolf triggered out this Fox would cause him to fuck up this potential relationship.

so it made me think about dating those we think are out our league.
it led me back to a conversation with a friend the other day.
she showed me an IG post of tyler lepley and i asked her…

“Could you date a man like him?”

can you handle the attention everywhere you go?
the disrespectful hoes?
“why is he with you?”
his own insecurities and/or trauma?
the attitude he has because others let his bad behavior slide?
what you see when his mask is off?
when he starts to lose his looks and how it’s tied to his self worth?
the potential need to always check to see if he is cheating on you?
wanting to sabotage it so you can prove yourself right?
watching what you say, do, font, and feel so you don’t turn him off?

This is what insecurities do when we meet someone we think is out of league.
So we try to out-fuck and out-suck him into being good for us.

i can honestly font that if i met a wolf that looked like charlie,
i would not be intimidated because he NOT out of my league.
NOW.
first off,
i’m the best fox to ever come in his life but…

Looking good or having a successful career doesn’t mean you will be good to me,
make a good partner,
or even fuck me the way I deserve to be fucked.

i think charlie is fine AF but he comes off materialistic and a tad bit…
un-relatable,
at times.
what is even like off rih’s social media?
if it’s anything like how he was on that reality show…

but sometimes we forget,
these males are humans too and just as we might be intimidated…

They are feeling the same way about us.

if you don’t think so,
or doubt that sentence,
you have a lot of work to do.

lowkey: i saw this and it made me think of how we come off to others…

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