Im a newbie here,
but first let me say you give some GREAT FREAKING ADVICE!!!!!
so question how do you get over someone?
like im really really struggling to get over my ex cap (im a pisces) its PISSING me off that everyone keeps saying: the best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else… ugh been there tried that but im not over him but apparently hes over me… ugh! do you have any advice for me?????
well welcome newbie.
good to have you aboard!
so you want to get over your x and as usual,
people are telling you go get your brains fucked out to hopefully get over him.
…well that is the dumbest advice anyone could ever give you.
drop those people immediately.
they are complete buffoons.
honestly there is no best way to get over your x.
if there was,
i’d bottle it up and sell it for millions.
having random sex will give you a temporary endorphin rush,
but after you have cleaned yourself off,
the feelings and emotions still remain.
if you hop into another relationship right after,
it will only lead to a rebound.
no sense in fuckin’ up someone else’s life because you can’t get it together.
you have to take some time and find yourself.
bring yourself back to square one.
take some mental inventory of who you are NOW.
what did you learn with this person?
did you become stronger or weaker?
what do you think YOU could have done better?
was the break up YOUR fault?
did you whine?
be a stalker?
drive his ass so crazy that he had to drop you?
getting over an x takes time especially if you loved him.
sure some new sex with a new stranger is great,
but you can’t “fuck the pain away”.
they would be some real high self esteemed thots if that was the case.
you have to slow down and get yourself together.
go join a gym,
learn something new,
give back to charity,
or make some money.
anything to start the process of making you a better person.
giving you those “becoming a better me” endorphins the right away.
what was that saying:
“the best revenge is to let them see you doing better”
…or something like that.
don’t get worn out in these streets on that thot life.
hope this helped.