i’ve never been a fan of lil duval.
his spirit never came off legit.
something about him just never connected with me.
so i’m not shocked with his comments.
my thing is…
…he might not agree with how someone lives,
but killing them is NEVER the answer.
wtf was he thinking?
that just comes off hateful and i could see why it created the wild fire it did.
the way he has been going about this tho…
so he has always been cancelled for me.
ya’ll may need to catch up to where i’m at.
tami roman made a point tho that i couldn’t ignore:
she really put a foot on everyone’s neck with her opinion on his “truth”.
we all live our truths in many ways.
in the gay community,
we are always being yelled at for “not living our truth”.
as ignorant as lil duval is…
Should he have been honest about his “truth”?
like tami said,
there are many who will say this behind closed doors.
even celebs who claim to be “pro” something are legit lying for pr.
your fav could be playing a role for movie tickets and album sales.
they do something where they look “for us”,
but they are cringing inside at the thought of it.
they may fear being judged or ridiculed of being open with their truth.
so do we fight everyone who says their “truth”?
banish them for being honest?
do we accept their opinion and move on with our own truths?
even if we don’t agree?
there are many who don’t like gays,
but my inner “ignore” button works differently than others.
in my life,
i realize that many won’t like me for who i choose to fuck.
some just won’t like me as a whole.
from the way i look,
how i dress,
how emphatic i am,
and the way i do my thing.
folks just don’t like me and that is a-o-kay.
it’s easy for me to cancel anyone who doesn’t like my truth.
i don’t give a fuck about their lives,
to be honest with you.
so i had to wonder…
Why do some of us get so bent out of shape with others who don’t accept them?
…but expect everyone to accept them?
some are furious at lil duval for his comments,
but spit hate to someone who is living his gay “truth” differently.
i’m not cosigning anything tami or ll duval said.