“when i was pregnant with pearl,
i drove out to california and one night it was 2 or 3 in the morning.
 i saw this light coming over the horizon.
as i got closer,
i realized that it was a fire.
a prairie fire.
 i just pulled over and i watched.
and when the sun came up…

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“everything you did brought you where you are now.
home.” – bran stark to theon greyjoy,
game of thrones

that quote really stuck with me since last night’s episode.
i’ve been thinking about it all day.
for those who know theon’s arc on “game of thrones”,
you know what he got humbled in order to come “home”.
i remember reading a book called “the alchemist” a few years ago…

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so i guess aaron hernandez fiance,
shayanna jenkins-hernandez,
has come to terms with aaron’s alleged bisexuality.
in a new book called “unnecessary roughness” by aaron’s defense attorney,
jose baez,
aaron’s sexuality was addressed from the thoughts of shayanna.
a foxholer sent me a quote from the book via nbc news…
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boxing wolf,
anthony joshua,
is a teenage dream to me.
i think he is so sexy,
but unfortunately,
he’s on the way to being allegedly cancelled by feminist twitter.
he may have put his boxing gloves in his mouth,
but thing is,
it happened all the way back from his 2017 in “british gq”.
he was saying he was more strict with his niece than his son.
femininst twitter saying he is suffering from “toxic masculinity”.
this is what set everyone off in 2018…
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has lee daniels gone mad?
i am being serious.
he has said some questionable shit in the past,
but i can’t with this statement he made about his new show “star”.
this is what he told ebony magazine…
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i have always been an open book when it came to my emotions.
i know it’s not the “manly” thing to do,
but i’d rather others know what’s bothering me than bottling it up.
with that being said,
i often asked myself:

Are males supposed to be emotional?

it’s like we’re supposed to lie in order to be considered a “man”.
the almighty male!
the one who bangs a lot of holes and wears designer clothes!
hear us roar!
rarrrrrrrrrr!
well that won’t be me.
judging from how the foxhole has been my “emotional journey” since ’09,
i guess many relate in some way or another.
thank you to those who continue not to judge me since then.
i saw a quote from viola davis the other day that represents me.
as you know,
viola is one of my favorite actresses.
this is a quick quote on what she told essence via the root…
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