he might just be gay.
i knew one who had an issue with every vixen he met.
it’d be all good and then a month later,
like clockwork,
there would be “a problem”.
sometimes,
a very small one that could be worked out.
he’d pick a random fight and then ghost the poor vixen.
i knew another who sexually kept going through vixens like underwear.
at first,
i thought it was the “we don’t love these hoes” narrative.
i can attest that about 98% weren’t hoes.
he’d go through the whole process like he was trying to date.
his excuse:
males are “supposed” to fuck a ton of women before settling down.
“sewing their wild oats” as they often say,
but if he’s close to 50 and still doing that…
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i think it’s okay to be a little dangerous.
now i’m not fontin’ about the “shady two faced” kind.
i’m talmbout the one that attracts and puts others under your spell.
that one isn’t something that can be taught or bought.
we all have it deep inside us.
i compare it to those certain vixens we all know…

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aaron hernandez was definitely not hers.
she was sharing that wolf…
so i guess it’s safe to come out with the “stories” now.
the brother of aaron hernandez opened up about his growing up.
now the alleged lover of aaron hernandez has come to the surface.
not the alleged jailbird on cell block “d”,
but another one.
this one’s name is dennis sansoucie.
he allegedly was aaron’s alleged high school ting.
this is what he had to share via “the daily mail”…
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FOXMAIL

This is a Ask Jamari question on PDA.

Some background: I was with a group of friends and associates of about 10 latin, black, multi-racial, in and out of the closet, feminine up to masculine and one of them let’s call him Jay who is dl masculine wolf ask everyone how they felt about pda (public displays of affection) between men such as holding hands, hugging, and kissing. He of course said even if he wanted to he’d never do it in public due to social norms etc. Another said he came from a home with no pda, nobody ever said I love you so he was uncomfortable doing it or somebody doing it to him in public. The answers varied but the one who surprised everybody was _____ who was a drug dealer when he was young, went to prison after killing a guy who gave him a date rape drug then went to college and now holds a phd. True sports addict and no one ever believes he’s into men. I’ve seen women be irate when they try to hit on him and he tells them he’s not interested and he likes men only. Well, he said at 17 he told his mom and family…does not use gay to describe himself but loves a male relationship solely. Well, he has no problem with pda at all in public whether initiating or being the receiving party. I’ve gotten more comfortable with some forms of it but for me it’s a time and place as I feel you have to be present in your environment. You may want to show your love but you have to use common sense as well. Overall, most men of color seem to be uptight about it so I was wondering how you felt about it.

So, if a guy you were involved with wanted to holds hands, hug you, or kiss you in public how would you react?

No limitations…some limitations…not allow it, etc

MY ANSWER…

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i know a lot of folks who don’t get along with their siblings.
i know others who are tight af and have a special bond.
it’s so beautiful to see.
one of the foxholers sent me this video and i nearly cried.
a rapper,
who goes by “yellopain”,
wrote a entire song to his brother.
it was his acceptance of him being gay.
it’s called “thats 100”.
it was really touching and i wanted to share it with the foxhole…
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…and it can be scary af.
like me,
you were taught that being gay is wrong/sin/gross,
yet you don’t understand why you’re attracted to males.
it could be this attraction to the your co worker,
the trainer in your gym,
or you were in public and peeped a cutie with a nice tail.
it made you hard af and you couldn’t understand wtf was going on.
i’m hear to font you…

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