F0x Mail: I’m In Love With 3 Wolves.

I got a wonderful email
from one of my international Foxes in London, Ty,
Foxes, he has a dilemma I am SURE we have have encountered once, twice, or three times in our Fox-hoods.

Here is Ty’s question:

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Hi Jamari

My names Ty and Im from London.Im an avid reader of ur blog and I love u! You’re like my hero! And ur taste in men….FLAWLESS!!

I’ve got a question about a situation in my life and I need some advice cos I know you get it. I really can’t think of anyone else to ask.

Ok so at my university there are 3 guys I fancy.

Man #1 is about 6’2, a rugby player and has a slimish build(but not so slim). I first encountered him at the library and we had this eye contact that made me feel knots in my tummy! it was such a nice feeling and I just kept feeling his eyes on me. I dunno, maybe i was making up things. the next day I was talking to a friend of mine who happens to know him and he came up to say hello to my friend-not acknowledging me. Then I slyly asked my friend what his name is and then got to fb and twitter stalkin him, He then made his twitter account private which was weird cos i freaked out and thought he knew i was stalkin.lol. Its been almost 3 weeks now and I see him randomly but he doesnt even notice me. I was a bit sad at first cos i thought there might have been something there, judging from our first exchange, Oh well. I figure either he is straight or he’s not just that into me.

Then there is dude #2. He goes to most of my classes. He is dark skinned, about 6’1, not v good looking but has got that swag u were just speaking about-u know the one Lebron James has? Yea. Ok, so i noticed he always looks at me all dreamy and stuff in class but i never take notice cos sometimes I do think I just might be imagining all this attention/momentary attraction I get from guys. Anyway, he hadn’t been in uni for 2 weeks now and I bumped into him last monday when we went to submit our course work. We said hello and had a little chat, Something in his eyes was v attractive. Then Today, we had a little exchange and that was v nice.(He has this really cute scar under his eye, right at the base of his cheekbones, ah well) I had to go back to the class after the lecture cos i had left my phone in the class- I get there and he is having this semi-sexually heated convo with this italian girl in my class. I wont even lie, I was a bit disappointed but its whatever. On his way out with her though he gently touched me on my back and said bye- Wierd ey? (Again, I cant even lie, his touch felt good! Only thing is he has smallish hands which am not so sure about!) Anyway that Boy 2.

And then Boy #3!! This man is like 6’4 and is always in the library. Uber hot! U kno those ones that r really good looking but don’t really know? Yes!! Anyway, the eye contact we have everytime is a madness!! Like I feel chemistry so much there! I always roam his floor in the lib so we can glance @ each other! I also sort of think he comes downstairs with hopes of seeing me cos i swear i see his eyes open up a little wide wenever he sees me! He seems very very very shy though!! I dunno. The other day we sort of ran into each other by the lib doors and I gave him a little smile but he just nodded his head so that kinda threw me off cos i expected a bit more!! He is lovely, I just don’t know what his situation is.

OK so J, this is where i kinda need ur advice. If i could magically chose, I’d chose man #1 cos he is mad sexy and I really like him. The thing is that am not sure about him @ all!!

How would you suggest I find out if any of them are into me?

What signs should I be looking out for?

With man #3 i feel so much chemistry with him but could it just be me? Cos i swear we have a connection even tho we haven’t said two words to each other!

Are there anythings u can suggest i did more/less of? I dunno. pls let me know , J.

Look forward to hear from u.

Love ya

Ty x x

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Love you too Ty.
Let’s break it down shall we….

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