i always said marriage is a business.
when you marry for love,
thats when it all goes down the drain.
When you get married,
you have to sign a contract.
When you divorce,
you gotta start splitting up assets and other fees (child support, alimony).
so you think you met the one,
ya’ll gonna live happily ever after,
and as soon as shit hits the fan…
You are both enemies who hate each other,
the kids are trying to figure out who is gonna win this war,
and savings accounts are being sent to offshore accounts.
i had a friend who hit me up over the weekend about his ended marriage.
after all the truth was revealed,
i was so turned off by it all.
read more in the backwoods:
lately,
wolves who are “straight” taken/married have been sniffing me out.
i always attract married and taken males for whatever reason.
i’m sure it’s just to f*ck but sheesh.
it made me realize just how unhappy many married people are.
they got married for the wrong reasons and “it’s cheaper to keep em“.
they have houses and kids together and can’t afford a divorce atm.
Many people aren’t leaving their marriages because of how much they have invested.
i might just want a long-term partner.
in this era of life,
where it seems everyone is cheating once they start getting bored,
and more straight males are realizing they’re gay and hate vixens…
Because some people need to realize they’re just not the marrying type. It’s really that simple but no one wants to be honest with themselves. I keep seeing people saying “don’t marry for love, marry for security.” That’s just another excuse for people to avoid having to confront the reality of themselves. They don’t want to accept the fact that they’re not built for such a complex institution. There’s a level maturity that goes along with being married that most people just aren’t capable of. And, they’re only get married because that’s what society told them they should do. But like I said, most people just aren’t the marrying type.