THE FOX WHORE.
I’m coming for ya man.
Yup, that is me.
Watch your man because I eat them alive.
I have insane magical powers that draw taken and confused men to me.
Only on TBS.
Very funny.
LOL
Seriously tho…
So, I met a dude from another state a couple of years back
and we became cool. He kept saying I was so hot and was attracted to me, but I never had a mutual attraction to him. I just saw him as a buddy and that is what I only allowed from him. He would send me inspirational message every morning and would call me ever so often…
…. but for the last 5 months, I haven’t heard from him.
No phone calls.
No more inspirational messages.
Nothing.
Confused, I was.
I know that he got into a relationship with a guy last year and was head over heels in love. They had their issues that he confided in me, but they were sticking strong.
So I called him yesterday and surprisingly, he answered.
We chatted and caught up and shared with me that the guy moved in with him.
They are pretty much shacking up and things are going well.
BUT!
And it’s always that BIG BUT…
He then reveals that the guy is the jealous type, which equals insecure.
He doesn’t want him to have any single Fox friends.
He then says that he showed him my picture and wasn’t having it.
He noticed that when we were on the phone, dude was catching an attitude.
I even noticed dude in the background trying to carry on a conversation and being rude, which was starting to piss me off.
So he pretty much choose his relationship and put a hold on ours.
I can understand… I think.
Makes me think you have no backbone but, whatever.
My problem is I rarely attract single Wolves that last.
And if they happen to be single, totally NOT my type whatsoever.
All the dudes I meet that want me are always taken.
Always the finest ones and never anything than to fuck me stupid.
I attract 3 type of dudes:
The Confused Straight Wolf
The Taken Wolf (either with man or woman)
The Confused Straight or Gay Taken Wolf
I don’t even want to start on the confused straight men with the hide and seek games….
It is worst because if it is a friend or associate,
as soon as someone introduces me to who they are messing with/talking to,
that Wolf forgets and then tries to get me on the low.
I must have the word:
WHORE!
written across my forehead.
I was told that by one taken Wolf I had to let go,
that I am the:
“I shoulda met YOU before HIM.“
Usually I am the Fox to never appear that I care as much…
plus it does help I am handsome with a charming personality.
Needles to say, I had to cut him out of my life.
I have no time for taken men……. and gaddamn, they are usually the sexiest.
Although with some, I WOULD be a better look.
But let’s keep that between us LOL….
Has my Foxes or Wolves encounter this problem?
Speak to me.
The guys who have wanted me and were perfect were usually in relationships…
but nothing ever came of it because those dawgs were attached to friends.
I find that to be so odd. There has to be something about them like a personality trait, when they’re in relationships, that you find attractive. Unless it means all the good ones are taken? And we all know that isn’t true =)
Well you know what they say, taken men are the sexiest. Its the “something you cant have” thing. But, they like me since the person they are with is lacking a personality trait I may have. Most of the time, they gave way to much and I come off “stronger”… and freakier.
and not by what I tell them. They just find out.
Well usually, it is a dude I an introduced too.
“Jamari I want you to meet my dude _________________”
and then as I come around, he starts to flirt with me and PRESTO CHANG-O.
I am usually just myself, crackin jokes and just being me.
But what you are saying does have alot of validity.
Lol I’m going to assume that not every guy you’ve dated was already involved when they met you. But is the method through which you meet men who you would potentially date is often through those… “let me intruduce you to my…” situations?
Oh not at all!!! That is what we would call “trife hobag stylin” lol
No, i can’t say that i have. Some guys do give of the impression that they wouldn’t require much effort to be involved with. That sex would take much less effort to obtain and your expectations of them would be a lot less. We’ve created a culture where men these days will get involved in anything that requires MINIMAL investment from them regardless of how successful, attractive, charming, or well put together you may be. So with that in mind I think you pretty much found what the qualities is that these men are attracted to: “Usually I am the Fox to never appear that I care as much.” And they like that…
^THIS
Even if the dude is fine, I barely give him any impression of thrist. I also do not assume someone is attracted to me because that can lead to egg faced if not. Alot of the times, the dudes they are with are push overs over “nice boys” and I come off really strong and aggressive. Secretly they want to bring me down…. I prefer them to be single LOL
Okay, i can understand that. They see you as some excitement. Men enjoy the chase and the anxiousness of not knowing if they can get you. Maybe they just want someone else to “play” with as a sort of vacation from their mundane. What do you think is causing them to end up with them instead of you? Timing can’t always be the excuse.